IT'S LOVE - WHEN YOU LOVE WITHOUT SOMETHING TO JUSTIFY.
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Talking about love is not easy, if it is a couple love less, in all cases there are endless reasons and papers that human beings put to defend our position in this regard, however according to my experience and the form of true and genuine love is that which loves without anything that justifies it.
Putting aside the sublime love of God, in the same way there are human loves, sometimes we think when we suffer love breaks that have broken our hearts, now I think: They have not broken your heart, they have broken your expectations !!All of us at some point are going through a rupture and it is not that I think that it will not hurt, but that most of the time we freeze from the pain because the expectations were simply broken and I think that emotionally it affects us that we try to say that it did it was love.
Love does not destroy, on the contrary, it gives everything, it supports everything, it fills it all, that love does not depend on what the other person does, it simply is, what needs food is not love, it is the emotions, it is our ego. Generally, those who are most likely to suffer a complicated or pathological grief after a breakup are excessively rigid people, who need certainty and control. Those who fear change.
We must learn to manage our expectations, it is okay to think about making plans with our partner, to feel that they support us, but it is also important to control individual emotions, not to pretend to be happy because of the other's attitudes, love is not envious, it is not boastful , is not puffed up and does not seek his own.
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And it is that love is like this: inexplicable, sometimes it scares us, it is confusing when we do not discern it.I know of the life of someone who connected with love and she told me that it was something inexplicable, that she did not care about that person's life or where she was, she loved him and that's it, inside she just wanted to be happy, and that happiness It also reached her. She also told me: do not ask me why I love him, I only know that I love him, the same thing happened to him was so much the love he felt for this person that in his silences benefited him.We must be prepared to face the changes without collapsing and, for this, we must conscientiously work on our self-esteem and our flexibility.
We all have that capacity to love, personally I have had to feel that genuine love, without condition, and I thank God for that.Take refuge in God, have self-control and prepare for love.
Message written for the HeartChurch community.
MOTHER OF THE CROWDS