Discipline without repression

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The parents hide from the charm and spontaneity of the children, and often despair at the fact that they cannot reach an agreement with the child.

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But many parents' mistakes can be prevented if you remember that babies under 5-6 years:

• They don't want to disturb and ruin your life. It's just that they still don't know everything, and especially how to deal with their feelings;
• They do not face many things due to the fact that their brain and body are not yet mature for this. Therefore, demanding a three-year-old baby is almost useless;
• This is the age at which children learn many things, including the simplest. But it is not enough to say how to do it right and then wait for it to run perfectly. Children need to show, explain and support their attempts to learn. Show by example.

It is important to help the baby develop and become independent, without suppressing his personality.

Tips

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- Do not do what children can do themselves.

It is easier for an adult and faster to feed the child, store all toys, but in this way we take away the opportunity to improve their skills. In addition, after one year, children violently maintain their independence with the words "I myself". This stage of children's development must be supported in every possible way and not blocked. Except, of course, life-threatening cases.

- Do not rush to help with the first child failures.

It is good to draw a line, put on a shirt, bring a cup and not pour anything at once. Patience to provide assistance and refrain from commenting.

- Do not correct what the child has done.

For example, he learned to clean the table. The first attempts will be uncomfortable, but the baby will be very proud of himself. If you rush to correct and teach him in that very moment, then this pride and desire to clean quickly evaporate behind you.

- More often, observe and notice a child's good deeds and achievements than his mistakes.

For good purposes, adults are more likely to focus the child's attention on their misbehavior. Therefore, we give a signal: "to get attention, we need to do something wrong." Change this rule and the child will be more willing to try to please you with good behavior.

- If the child is fined, give him the opportunity to fix it.

The child spilled the paintings on the floor? Let me help you wash it. Do not do it yourself, when correcting your mistakes, see that the actions have consequences that you will have to deal with. But the crying of the parents and the possible punishment will make him fear, but they will not learn to correct the mistakes.

- Have your child participate in household chores.

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Make it something simple and feasible for your age, such as watering flowers, hanging clothes, cleaning dust from furniture. Such duties help the baby to build self-confidence that he is successful and that he contributes to the family.

- Make free play a priority in child development.

Take your time to entertain when you are bored. Let your child's imagination express itself.

- Use the game in communication with the child.

Children learn during the game, not at all an abstract phrase. A three-year-old boy is much easier to put on if a plane or some fabulous hero helps him. This will require parents to get involved in the imagination, but at the same time they will reduce passions in many matters.

- Warn your child about changing activities.

When children are passionate about something, they find it difficult to change their attention to the first request. For example, during a walk, notice with a little anticipation that you will soon have to go home. Then the child will have the opportunity to accept this thought and finish the game.

- Try to follow your daily routine.

Children love predictability and consistency. Therefore, it is easier for them to carry out routine actions.

Source for information

https://www.bbmundo.com/mamas-papas/papas/guia-para-disciplinar-a-un-nino-sin-golpes/
https://www.elnacional.com/sociedad/salud/orientar-sin-reprimir_182120/