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Are you familiar with those words from other people? "Those who are always in the church are the one who are so judgemental."

Literally yes, most of the people who always hears the word from the bible are so judgemental. They are judgemental because they understand what is wrong from bad. I envy those people who are always going into church because their being so devoted. I wanted to do it but all I did was going to church sometimes.

I'm jealous of how they're being so determined in their faith. However their attitude are ruining their time going to church. If they already knew the bad from wrong. Then why they're being so judgemental? Instead of judging other people, why not guiding them? Remember that even your own family doesn't know the whole story of a person.

Don't tell me that criminals are good because before they made some crime they're showing good deed first. Lawyer as well because they'll free someone who made a crime? What might the victim thinks if the suspect will get free because the lawyer is good? Do you think the priest will be excluded in judgement because they understand the word of God in details? If we think like that it's better to stop spreading rumours to other people.

Everyone in this world has the right to live of what they wanted. People will see it bad because that's not what they wanted to be. How about those people who did that? Do we think they didn't like it or even if they like it. They should follow on what other people wanted? For you, for other people it looks bad. But for that person they have reasons why they still did that. They knew that in the eye of the society its bad but what is important. Themselves or ourselves? Of course it should be ourselves. We will be the one who will enjoy it or who will suffer for it.

No one has the right to judge someone because they don't know other peoples story. They might know something but not everything about it. We don't know if that person does bad so that he can do good in other people. For other people it might be unacceptable but for that people who is dear to him it's fine. Have we considered ourselves thinks first before judging other people? Are we that perfect to think those people are bad influence in the society?

No one knows of course I'm telling you. Never talk someone in their back. Never judge right away by the appearance of a person. Respect that each of us has different perspectives in life. All of us have different fashion in our lives. That's it, we don't have the right after all. Consider yourself lucky for being abundance in education, food and life status.

"Look at yourself first before looking at others. "

thank you for reading

d' dreamboy,
@mrnightmare89