iniciativa/preguntas existenciales/ el placer de existir

existencia

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Good morning to all the members of this community, especially to @miriannalis for provoking in me a new analysis of my existence with his educational post about existential questions.


For being questions that seem easy to answer or at least in many occasions we answer them in a very superficial way.<

Without making a real analysis and when we dedicate time to each question we can see that not always the answers coincide with what we really do or want.

However, I think that almost always these questions arise more from maturity, because when we are young, we go more to the collective acceptance to share with friends without taking into account many times the contributions of these relationships,

Since I read the post, always very sad for not having the pleasure of participating in these healthy biodances, I stopped to think at least at this stage of my life about these questions.

And I remembered my mom a lot because the relationship with my dad was always marked by the phrase: your grandmother told me it was the spoon you chose, so you have to eat with it.

However, with the development of societies and of women, these preconceived ideas were left behind, but really, are we always with whom we want or where we want?
are we always with whom we want or where we want?

I was always independent in my decision making, I wanted to be where I felt good and not because of commitment, however I surrounded myself with many people that I considered were good for my health but I see today that it was not like that.

I have a partner that no one understands how we have been able to have a relationship for almost 20 years with how different we are, however everything flows from respect and tolerance.

I understood that I did not have to be in one place because everyone was, I simply learned from the question that I like the most and that is the one I ask myself: today what do you want Zoraida, what your body asks you?

And from there begins my day, I learned that if I am not able to consider and respect myself, my desires and needs, no one will value and respect you the same, because everything goes from learning.

Sometimes we say for me it's too late. not learning to love yourself has no time, and it helps, because from your love for yourself you will learn to love others more intensely.

We say is the partner I want, is the job I like, are the friends I want? and we do not see how we are and there is the answer, * want *, many say not always want is power.because CERTAIN situations can not be changed or people who can not be left aside, it is real, but you can change you, your mentality, your acceptance, your way of loving because the importarte is to Exist

We complain a lot about life, about its existence and how it hits us, when really existing is the first thing to be grateful for and your first responsibility.

At 50 years of my existence I made an analysis and I told myself that you complied with society, the law of God and man, you got married, you have a daughter who is useful to society, but do you comply with yourself? I have it as homework.

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