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Greetings to this community and its members who always captivate me with these issues, as @charjaim, on the stories you tell yourself.
I have to admit that as you say in your post, adults always say that you will see what happens when you get old, you will check it out, jjj I have already arrived and however I have been able to verify that their stories were their stories, not only like your guanabana, which by the way they told me jjj and I can't get over it, I still don't eat it because it catches a cold.
Being born in such a large family and especially women I had many influences and therefore many stories, my mom would die when she saw him playing and running around the couch and left him swinging, she would run to stop him and told me never let him move because the spirits come and sit down jjjjjj I laughed as I laugh now but nevertheless someone moves one and I stop him.
I mean we are always influenced by their stories, although I have very few fears, but I have created certain rituals that in many cases I realize that they are not good and yet I do not stop doing them.
I have tried not to influence my daughter too much during her education because I always told her that your grandmother told me that if it rains and you take a bath the soap attracts the lightning, we laughed but I gave her the correct explanation.
Today, at my age, I am very upset for the simple reason that I am unable to overcome a belief.
I see that the weather is cloudy, it is going to rain and I run, no matter if I am at work or at a party because my mother used to say that if you see that it is going to rain, run to the house, do not take shelter anywhere, and I get heavy downpours jjj.
And with this the only thing I get is to create problems, but it is something that I really instilled in me so much that I listen to myself and I do not believe it but I do not stop doing it.
On many occasions adults, to control children we use stories, that we know that they are not real without realizing that more than feeding their beliefs we are interfering in the creation of their personality, we are creating an individual in many occasions insecure and fearful.
So I have created some strategies such as not to influence with my stories and tales, give logical explanations, make the stories with grace but always specifying that they are stories, I try in the day when I go to bed to review what I did right or wrong not to err the next day.
Before I had an idea and I was obsessed with it, today I work more on that idea, I try to see it from what it brings me and what it does not bring me.
I have managed to be more balanced in life and I have achieved greater stability from the emotional to the physical.if from the social we work on the strength in the ideas and criteria and help with the right tools to the growth of the individual from the social, psychological and emotional, we would be getting a more integral human being.
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Muchas creencias familiares, que se quedan en nosotros, a veces sin quererlo.
Saludos. 😊
Gracias por leerlo así pasa
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Nunca había escuchado ese de la silla, hay creencias que dejamos se instalen y las repetimos, está bien que a tus hijas no las llenas con esas historias. Saludos cordiales.
Ssi es gracias por los temas tan interesante que nos trae
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