[Esp-Eng] Como vivir ,sin vida
Hello friend from this community, to write about the loss of a child and help their parents about this situation is difficult, I will speak from my personal experience, without losing her I do not live.
when they tell us that we are pregnant, we always run to dream how it will be, if female or male, we even design their career, a name that means something on earth, and so we walk by their side all our lives, we do not sleep when they have the flu, a boyfriend a risky job, well just more nuncadormimds to loose legs.
until one day, when you think that something is simple and because of the advances in medicine, soon with a pill it will heal, like that old flu and someone announces that it is serious and that you have to go to the pediatric oncology ward, you feel that you have just died. you no longer listen, you no longer see, you no longer see, the mixed feelings begin to bloom, and you begin to look for someone to blame where there is none.
When you walk in you can't believe it, they have different ages and pathologies, only one thing in common, they are children, facing death with the biggest of smiles, even when the pain and the situation in the room gets tense they maintain a position that parents don't understand, we can only support each other and encourage each other, but how to do it.
Psychologists explain it to you and maybe when they talk to you you understand it, it is the cycle of life, some are longer, some are shorter, but when a child sees his leg amputated and says that Marti, our apostle, was a liar because he said that children are born to be happy, you do not understand logical reasoning.
The situation worsens, you look for support in other mothers going through the same thing, you think it will give you more comfort, you are an atheist and you learn the prayers, you do everything but eat, until you feel the sound of a machine that warns you that an angel has gone, everyone says that an angel has arrived in heaven but you wanted him on earth.
We mothers embrace each other and only say you can do it, you are strong and yes, we don't know where we come from but we do it, of course, life is never the same again, even when we have other children, we become friends, but we only have that support and that emptiness.
I do not live, my daughter is an adult, thanks to her improved health but to continue to see life as hanging by a thread that can break at any moment is not life, we become more protective when it should not be so, we should talk, enjoy them whenever possible, do thousands of activities together even at home, do not let technology isolate us, touch this issue, disease and death as a fact as real as that today you exist and tomorrow you will not.
Mothers should be united, informed, contribute to an upbringing on family unity, support each other and not see in other people's children an enemy according to their education, color, for your son or daughter, give tastes is good but it is important that they value everything in life because when it touches us at some point in life, we have to live without them, because you can no longer see them even by video calls, When we have to live without them, because you can no longer see them even by video calls, then we fall into a spiral of everything we did not do or did not do correctly, my modest opinion, from the point of view of a daughter, who may or may not be and of friends who do not have them anymore.
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traduuctor Deepl
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translator Deepl
The role of a mother in a home cannot be underrated because they hold a strong pillar in the home.
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@zorili91 este es un tema muy sensible y difícil de tratar, aunque como parte de l a vida sucede, no quieres ni imaginarlo. 😘
@zorili91 this is a very sensitive and difficult topic to deal with, although as part of life it happens, you don't even want to imagine it.😘
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Hola @zorili91, vivir sin vida, cada historia es similar donde el protagonista es el dolor. Sin tener esa experiencia solo intento imaginarlo, pero hay que vivirlo para entenderlo, como las fuerzas brotan cuando sientes que no las hay. Infinitas gracias por todo, por estar en esta iniciativa.
Mi abrazo 🙏💙
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