LOH Contest #133: Single mothers, full-time superheroes and lies men tell about us. [ESP-ENG]

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¡Hola Ladies! Espero estén teniendo un excelente día. En esta oportunidad dejaré mi participación del concurso de la semana, conmemorando el mes de las madres con preguntas interesantes por responder. Invito a mi amiga @dariamrivasfer sin más que agregar, iniciemos 😊

Hi Ladies, I hope you are having a great day. In this opportunity I will leave my participation of the contest of the week, commemorating the month of mothers with interesting questions to answer. I invite my friend @dariamrivasfer without more to add, let's get started 😊.

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1️⃣Madres solteras
Mujeres luchadoras

No es necesario que sea una madre soltera para compartir sus pensamientos sobre esto, ya que todos debemos haber visto o estado cerca de una, si no hemos sido una. Ellas también son madres, pero ¿qué tan diferentes? ¿Tienes algún consejo para que sigan empujando?

En efecto aún no soy madre pero tengo amigas y primas que son madres solteras, por mi cercanía con ellas me he dado cuenta del arduo trabajo y sacrificio que implica, sin embargo todo eso lo recompensa la buena crianza que le dan a sus hijos y el amor que reciben de ellos.

Estando por un momento en su posición y teniendo en cuenta que no se compara con serlo, algunos consejos que les podría dar a todas las madres solteras sería:

  • No estás sola, en tus momentos difíciles permítete recibir apoyo de tus seres queridos. Eres una madre maravillosa pero no por eso dejas de ser ser humano. Sientete orgullosa de la crianza que le brindas a tu hijo.

  • Sé responsable, recuerda que ahora tienes a alguien que necesita de ti. Ofrécele todo tu cariño, amor, atención, no lo dejes solo en sus momentos dificiles, tampoco minimices sus problemas, que aunque para ti sean pequeños, para el o ella son gigantes.

  • Siempre está al tanto de su salud, sus vacunas al día y sigue las recomendaciones de tu médico, él siempre querrá lo mejor para tu hijo.

  • Eres una luchadora, excepcional, no permitas que nada ni nadie te derrumbe, puedes con todo y más.

1️⃣Single Mothers
Struggling women

You don't have to be a single mom to share your thoughts on this, as we all must have seen or been around one, if we haven't been one. They are moms too, but how different, do you have any advice for them to keep pushing.

Indeed I am not a mother yet but I have friends and cousins who are single mothers, because of my closeness with them I have realized the hard work and sacrifice involved, however all that is rewarded by the good parenting they give to their children and the love they receive from them.

Being for a moment in your position and taking into account that it does not compare to being one, some advice I could give to all single mothers would be: You are not alone.

  • You are not alone, in your difficult moments allow yourself to receive support from your loved ones. You are a wonderful mother but that doesn't mean you are not a human being. Be proud of the upbringing you are giving to your child.

  • Be responsible, remember that now you have someone who needs you. Offer him/her all your affection, love, attention, do not leave him/her alone in his/her difficult moments, do not minimize his/her problems, even if they are small for you, for him/her they are gigantic.

  • Always be aware of his health, his vaccinations up to date and follow your doctor's recommendations, he will always want the best for your child.

  • You are an exceptional fighter, don't let anyone or anything bring you down, you can handle anything and everything.

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2️⃣Mentiras más grandes
Creencias de hombres

Algunos hombres creen que las mujeres aman el dinero más que ellos, otros creen algo más... ¿Cuál es la mentira más grande que has escuchado o visto que los hombres realmente creen sobre las mujeres?

Aquellos hombres que dicen que todas las mujeres son fáciles, nada mas erróneo que eso. Estamos en una época donde no debemos generalizar. Existen mujeres de buenos valores, respetables, independientes, aquellas que no necesitan de un hombre para salir adelante. Nuestra forma de vestir no nos representa y no por eso deben catalogarnos de "fácil" es importante darse cuenta de la diferencia.

Otra mentira que he escuchado es que hagan lo que hagan, nosotras siempre los perdonaremos. Es cierto que algunos merecen segundas oportunidades, sin embargo no es para siempre. Si una mujer no recibe el respeto y amor que se merece está en todo su derecho de alejarse y no por eso ser considerada una mala persona.

2️⃣Biggest lies
Beliefs of men

Some men believe that women love money more than they do, others believe something else... What's the biggest lie you've heard or seen men really believe about women?

Those men who say that all women are easy, nothing more wrong than that. We are in a time where we should not generalize. There are women with good values, respectable, independent, those who do not need a man to get ahead. Our way of dressing does not represent us and that does not mean we should be labeled as "easy", it is important to realize the difference.

Another lie I have heard is that no matter what they do, we will always forgive them. It is true that some deserve second chances, however it is not forever. If a woman does not receive the respect and love she deserves, she has every right to walk away and not be considered a bad person.


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Esta fue mi participación de la semana, felicidades a todas las madres por cada día y por todo el amor incondicional que nos brindan.
Muchas gracias por leerme, nos vemos en un próximo post, deseo que tengan un bonito día.💕

This was my participation of the week, congratulations to all mothers for every day and for all the unconditional love you give us.
Thank you so much for reading me, see you in a next post, I wish you have a nice day.💕

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Those are really lovely advice you shared, single mothers needs all the encouragement they could get and yours counts!

Women are easy and forgive easily? Haha, lies indeed... It can't be a general thing, some women aren't even close to that.

Thanks for your participation. !LADY

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Thank you so much for reading my post! super happy to participate this week. Nice day to you Lady!

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That's some good advice that you have shared. When family and friends support the journey becomes easier.

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Yes, thank you very much for sharing your opinion. The path hand in hand with our loved ones will always be the best.

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Of cause men has this believe that women are soft hearted that is why they always misbehaves thinking the woman will easily forgive them

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Nothing could be more wrong than that thought. Thank you very much for reading me and leaving your opinion. Have a great day.

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