The Words I Need To Hear!

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When I see myself into the mirror everyday and I see much hope and expectations in the eyes. I always keep saying to myself that:

I can do it, I am the best, I am doing good, Everything is fine...

Honestly this is something that keeps me going on everyday, that is my strength, that is my motivation, I encourage myself everyday to push myself harder every other day.
But yeah sometimes I do feel the need of External Motivation, Support and Guidance. Then I truly wish to hear:

You can do it, you are the best, you are doing good, Everything is fine...

These mare magical words can fill every moment with joy and cheerfulness. We all have high and low days in our lives and as it is said

"No man is an island in itself"
"Man is a Social Animal"

Being recognised, getting encouraged and support from others are indispensable attributes of human lives. Sometimes a simple, Thank You or Sorry, can bring about a change in relationships. It's good to have Self-confidence, Having a Positive Attitude and Self-respect. Because only we are and should be responsible for our actions and choices in life. But in tough times and times of self-doubt, we tend to aspect the above said words which can do wonders and life our spirit.

There will always be few People in our life who will discourage and criticise us, they try to bring negative influence in our life. They will say exactly opposite of above said words. That's the reality and such people had always been there and they always will be. We don't need to pay any heed to such people and don't give much importance and attention to such people. Remember Success is the Best Revenge and those people will automatically become quite once you do something good with your life. But that doesn't be confused with that you need to prove something to others, nope. Remember you only need to prove yourself, prove yourself that you are the best.

You can do it, this is something no less than a powerful tonic, and when it comes from people around us, it definitely takes our courage and determination to next level, it clears all the clouds of self-doubts. It helps to push ourselves much more harder. These words shows great hope and positivity. Removes the burden and takes off the pressure from our shoulders. In critical times and just before the any judgment day, this phrase can do wonders.

you are the best, this should only be taken in a positive way and with a optimistic view. It's not about being arrogant or over-confident. This phrase gives a warmth of being something valuable in life. It clears the doubts of being inferior to someone. The best here should always be viewed as Best version of Ourselves, no need to compare ourselves with anyone because everyone is unique and special in their own ways.

You are doing good, these words of appreciation are very much needed in life, no matter what we do, it's of no good unless it gets appreciated atleast by our loved ones and family. Most of the times we have disagreements or conflict of interest in our lives and we choose a different path. And when we start going on that path we do feel loneliness, doubts and fears all the way long. In such times, this phrase can help us bring more efficiency in our work and life.

Everything is fine, this is all time favorite motivation phrase and we usually hear it in our lives. And definitely we need to hear it the most. The uncertainty and up-downs of daily life, sometimes brings despair and destitution on our lives. We need some say these words to present us a view of better future and a way out of our problems.

Moreover sometimes all we need is just a 'Hug' from the loved ones. A smile and Joy in eyes of our family also brings happiness to our lives.

This is My entry to Abundance Tribe's Biweekly Question, Write The Words You Need To Hear! by @trucklife-family. Check out the Main Post Here

Thank You so much for Reading. Have a Good Day 😊🙏