THE ARCHITECTURE OF BEING A MOM // LA ARQUITECTURA DE SER MAMÁ

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Hello my dear friends of this community, today I want to share with everyone a few words that I have been keeping in my heart for a long time, perhaps the title of my post has surprised you a bit, but the truth is that being a mother should be an honor for any woman. Architecture is defined as the art of planning and building; and personally I believe that this is how mothers are, we live in a constant learning to be, who with their actions can establish everything necessary to form a home.
Hola mis queridos amigos de esta comunidad, hoy quiero compartir con todos unas palabras que llevo tiempo guardando en mi corazón, quizás les haya sorprendido un poco el titulo de mi post, pero la verdad es que ser madre debería ser un honor para cualquier mujer. La arquitectura se define como el arte de proyectar y construir; y personalmente creo que así somos las madres, vivimos en un constante aprendizaje para ser, quien con sus acciones pueda establecer todo lo necesario para formar un hogar.

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I was a girl very loved and pampered by my family, I grew up in a functional home, which had its ups and downs like everyone else, but I knew that I was being trained by an excellent woman (my beautiful little mother), little by little I was discovering things and learning from what it was about being a woman. Since then my intention in the day to day was more than clear. I studied, I obtained a university degree, I got married after 3 years of dating, 10 years later, the longed-for miracle of my life arrived, and the next year the other, so that God ratified his love for me through the lives of my friends. sons. 27 years have passed since the union with my husband, and I continue to project and build, I try to be a better person, a good mother and wife.
Fui una niña muy amada y mimada por mi familia, crecí en un hogar funcional, que tenia sus altibajos como todos, pero supe que estaba siendo formada por una excelente mujer (mi madrecita bella), poco a poco fui descubriendo cosas y aprendiendo de que se trataba ser una mujer. Desde entonces mi intención ante el día a día estaba mas que claro. Estudié, obtuve un titulo universitario, me case después de 3 años de noviazgo, 10 años después, llego el milagro anhelado de mi vida, y al año siguiente el otro, para de esa manera Dios ratificarme su amor a través de la vida de mis hijos. Ya han pasado 27 años de la unión con mi esposo, y sigo proyectando y construyendo, trato ser una mejor persona, una buena madre y esposa.

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The girl and Lele are two teenagers with different personalities and characters and the truth is that it is very difficult to be complacent at all times. I make an effort to give the correct advice; but I doubt me because if they like everyone at some time, they will want to live their own experiences; I am not the type of mother who is blind to the circumstances of life, I always try to be objective and ready at the same time to continue building and projecting in their lives. I have tried to let you know that a NO is better and wiser than always saying YES.
La nena y lele, son dos adolescentes con personalidades y caracteres diferentes y la verdad que es muy difícil poder ser complaciente en todo momento, hago el esfuerzo por dar el consejo correcto; pero dudo de mi porque se ellos como todos alguna vez, van a desear vivir sus propias experiencias; yo no soy del tipo de madre que se ciega ante las circunstancias de la vida, siempre trato de ser objetiva y lista a la vez para seguir construyendo y proyectando en sus vidas. He tratado de hacerles saber, que un NO es mejor y mas sabio que decir SI siempre.

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I waited many years to exercise motherhood, but the truth is that only God is the owner of time, now it is my turn to love and care, guide and exhort, scold and hug; all with the purpose of continuing to build the home and polish my works. I love every moment with my family, I try to be present in their lives, even knowing that at some point they will have to take flight. But while that happens, I try to form values ​​in them, which are the necessary tools to be better people, professionals and couples.
Espere muchos años para ejercer la maternidad, pero la verdad es que solo Dios es dueño del tiempo, ahora me toca amar y cuidar, orientar y exhortar, regañar y abrazar; todo con el propósito de seguir edificando el hogar y puliendo mis obras. Amo cada momento con mi familia, trato de estar presente en sus vidas, aún sabiendo que en algún momento tendrán que levantar el vuelo. Pero mientras eso pasa, trato de formar en ellos valores, que son las herramientas necesarias para ser mejores personas, profesionales y parejas.

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My advice for today: "never talk about other people's children." "It's not always good to say YES." "Do not judge without first listening." "Include dad in every decision about children." "May everything new or for the first time be from your hand." and the most important of all, "before going to sleep, kiss your children, hug them and lie down next to them for a few minutes, in those moments there is always a reward"
Mis consejos de hoy: "nunca hables de los hijos de los demás". "No siempre es bueno decir SI". "No juzgues sin antes escuchar". "Incluye a papá en cada decisión sobre los hijos". "Que todo lo nuevo o por primera vez sea de tu mano". y el mas importantes de todos, "antes de dormir, besa a tos hijos, abrázalos y acuéstate unos minutos a su lado, en esos momentos siempre hay una recompensa"

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Thank you for reading me, the images are totally my property and I wanted to share them with all of you so that you know the wealth that God has given me to take care of.
Gracias por leerme, las imágenes son totalmente de mi propiedad y las quise compartir con todos ustedes para que conozcan la riqueza que me ha dado Dios para cuidar.


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