This Is The Only Way You Can Rediscover Yourself
One of the possible ways of discovering who we truly are is when you let go off the past. I agree that nature and differences spanning from one individual to another, has made it almost impossible to entirely give up on things and let it go at the same time and pace. To some people, it is easier to let go, while to some others, it is a difficult process. However, the only way you can truly rediscover yourself is by giving up on whatever kind of trauma you have been holding onto for years. This way, you are set aright and at peace with everything around you, people, the world and yourself. If you can’t let go off the past, then forgiveness will become a virtue that would take its distant toll on you, because it will be unable to come naturally to you. When there is no forgiveness in your heart, you will naturally give in to pain, you will always become bothered when things don’t go as planned, you will never be able to heal emotionally even when other people see you as their strength, You will continue to bear the pain, curse, the burden, ego and the anxiety that is intertwined with not being able to forgive. This might cause you to never be able to fall in love, and even if you do, there will always be a constant and consistent struggle within you, not to give your best as a result of the fear that has occupied a space in your heart. These struggles will prevent you from being vulnerable. Vulnerability enables you to give everything especially the feeling of love just as you have received it.
Unforgiveness, bitterness, pain makes you blind to the abundance of healthy people, friendships and relationships close to you. This skewed version of foresight eventually drags you back to where you don’t want to be. And you might eventually end up with the wrong person in another more devastating bad relationship. Stop holding on the things that broke you longer than you should, because no one can heal you better than you can heal yourself. Do not clench tenaciously to it, so that you do not get so consumed in your pain that you let good people slip off your finger, because just as no two humans even when born of the same parents are the same, all men are not the same neither are all women the same. Therefore, do not let all of these emotional crisis shut your eyes and lead your heart into believing that all genders are the same.
Heal, forgive, settle and let go every inanity that doesn’t sit well with you. This way, you can let go the mistakes and grudges and bury every one of them, so that it remains dead forever. Even though we never truly completely forget when we forgive, we are taking a stance to advance and format the old system thereby allowing every data to be completely erased. This way, you are setting yourself and your heart clean.
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