Appreciating the small details of life || Contest @Ladiesofhive
Hello dear friends of the hive ladies community!!!!
I am pleased to be again sharing this space with you as it is the Ladies of Hive Community Contest #52, I love to participate in these contests, because they give me the opportunity to express and share stories of my life with you, my hive family.
In this case I am going to answer the second question.
How have you improved as a result of the experience over the years?
Well, this question is very interesting to me because, at my age of 59, every moment or situation of my day to day life makes me understand how wrong people act when they are young.
I in my particular I see with great sadness, the most beautiful moments of life wasted by me and now I enjoy intensely, as the beautiful sunsets, I love to contemplate the degradation of the colors and how they are fading and forming one and others, until the twilight comes that gives way to the darkness of the night and the beautiful landscape of the night sky, the moon and the stars.
All these things are so gratifying to me and I think, I could very well have enjoyed them when I was young and I didn't do it. But, I justify myself by saying that the obligations with my job, the commitment and run, run of raising my daughters and the long list of responsibilities in my home, made me completely forget about these small and insignificant things for some, but for me they are magical.
My only consolation, is that when I retired and my daughters were already grown up, I was unloading all that weight of responsibilities, then I started from that moment to value all that and teach it to my daughters, so that what happened to me will not happen to them and they already adults, and far, so far away from me, they write me to tell me, "Mommy, I am watching a beautiful sunset, like the ones you like, how I wish you were here with me to enjoy it together "*** and they send me pictures and I enjoy them just the same.
It fills me with so much satisfaction, to be able to enjoy all these wonders that life gives me, I thank God for allowing me to appreciate this gift that he offers me with full hands.
I feel that I have had a full life, and that I have fulfilled little by little all my goals that I dreamed of having since I was a child.
***What drove you, the passion, a dream or the family that directed you?
Well, for me it was all of these together, my dream as a child to be a teacher and that is what I was from a very young age until my retirement, also my dream of getting married and having children, and so it was, God rewarded me with three beautiful girls. As for my passions, I can tell you that I wanted to have a car and drive it, after a long time I achieved it, I had a Chevette and I became a fanatic behind the wheel, I also wanted to have a beautiful house and I have it, although my dream was to share it with my daughters, but I enjoy it alone and it is a peace of mind in these times of crisis that we are living.
Well and finally I want to make it clear that I owe all this to my family, who was always there to direct me, I feel that without them I would not have been able to achieve it, I always had their support, help of all kinds and their unconditional love.
Now my daughters fulfill that mission, to accompany me, support me and help me always, despite the distance, they never leave me alone, they are always there, day after day and especially when I need them the most.
Well, dear friends, that's all for today, I hope you like this other story of my life and that I have been able to fulfill your expectations.
Until next time, I hope it will be very soon.
Image taken from Pixabay, uploaded by JillWellington
Imagen tomada de Pixabay, subida por JillWellington
Hola queridas amigas de la comunidad de damas de hive!!!
Me complace estar nuevamente compartiendo este espacio con ustedes como lo es el Ladies of Hive Community Contest #52, me encanta participar en estos concursos, porque me brindan la oportunidad de expresar y compartir historias de mi vida con ustedes, mi familia hive.
En este caso voy a contestar la segunda pregunta.
Cómo has mejorado cómo resultado, de la experiencia a lo largo de los años?
Bueno, está pregunta es muy interesante para mí, ya que, a mi edad de 59 años, cada momento o situación de mi día a día, me hace entender, lo equivocadamente, que actúan las personas cuando estan jóvenes.
Yo en mi particular veo con gran tristeza, los momentos más hermosos de la vida desperdiciados por mi y que ahora disfruto intensamente, como los hermosos atardeceres, me encanta contemplar la degradación de los colores y como se van desvaneciendo y formando unos y otros, hasta que llega la penumbra que da paso a la oscuridad de la noche y el hermoso paisaje del cielo nocturno, la luna y las estrellas.
Todas estas cosas son tan gratificantes para mí y pienso, que pude muy bien disfrutarlas cuando era jovencita y no lo hice. Pero, me justifico diciendo que las obligaciones con mi trabajo, el compromiso y corre, corre de la crianza de mis hijas y la larga lista de responsabilidades en mi hogar, hacían que me olvidará por completo de estás pequeñas e insignificantes cosas para algunos, pero que para mí son mágicas.
Mi único consuelo, es que cuando me jubilaron y mis hijas ya estaban mayorcitas, fui descargando todo ese peso de responsabilidades, entonces empecé desde ese momento a valorar todo aquello y enseñarselo a mis hijas, para que nos les pasará lo que a mí y ellas ya adultas, y lejos, tan lejos de mí, me escriben para decirme, "mami, estoy viendo un hermoso atardecer, como los que a usted le gustan, cuanto quisiera que estuviera aquí conmigo para disfrutarlo juntas" y me mandan fotos y yo igual los disfruto.
Me llena de tanta satisfacción, poder disfrutar de todas estas maravillas que me brinda la vida, doy gracias a dios por permitirme valorar este regalo que me ofrece a manos llenas.
Siento que he tenido una vida plena, y que he cumplido poco a poco todas mis metas, que desde niña soñaba con tener.
Qué te impulsó, la pasión, un sueño o la familia que te dirigió?
Pues, para mis fueron todas estas juntas, mi sueño de niña de ser maestra y es lo que fui desde muy jovencita hasta mi jubilación, también mi sueño de casarme y tener hijos, y así fue, dios me premió con tres hermosas niñas. En cuánto a mis pasiones les puedo decir, que estaba tener un carrito y manejarlo, después de mucho tiempo lo logré, tuve un Chevette y me volví una fanática al volante, también quería tener una hermosa casa y la tengo, aunque mi ilusión era poder compartirla con mis hijas, pero, la disfruto sola y es una tranquilidad en estos momentos de crisis que estamos viviendo.
Bueno y por último quiero dejar bien claro, que todo esto se lo debo a mi familia, que siempre estuvo ahí, para dirigirme, siento que sin ellos no habría podido conseguirlo, siempre conté con su apoyo, ayuda de todo tipo y su amor incondicional.
Ahora mis hijas cumplen esa misión, de acompañarme, apoyarme y ayudarme siempre, a pesar de la distancia, nunca me dejan sola, siempre están ahí, día tras día y sobre todo cuando más las necesito.
Bueno, queridas amigas, esto es todo por hoy, espero les guste esta otra historia de mi vida y que haya podido llenar sus expectativas. Invito a participar a @chacald.dcymt.
Hasta la próxima vez, espero sea muy pronto.
La traducción fue hecha con deepl.com. Post de mi autoría.
The translation was done with deepl.com. Post of my authorship.
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Sunsets are like finding the end of the rainbow every day, happy in the knowledge you accomplished all your dreams in teaching, have a loving family, driven through the years to reach for your dreams.
This is something my mum alsways said to me when i was growing up and was young, now i say it to our 4 kids.
Its true and life is gorgeous with a lot of flaws.
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