MY BREAKFAST DISH: How I Handled It...

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Hello everyone, this is my first time here. I hope that I met you well and fine. Good! Relax, grab your snacks and drinks and come have a look of how I cleaned my mouth after breakfast.

Well, I hope you are no thinking this is about a conventional breakfast. Oh no! It is actually a slang which means heartbreak in my society.

To start with, this is to address the issue of Love. When we look at it, we see that love is complex. It can be a mix of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs that are associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another.

We see that when two souls are in love, it becomes easier for them to connect, flow and adjust to please the other party. That’s how love works.

Well, that’s not where we are going...

I’m sure you will agree with me that it always feels good to be in love with someone you cherish. You extend love and expect it to be reciprocated. Right? Yeah! You give in your trust, commitment, sacrifice, everything to make the relationship works out for the betterment of you two.

Suddenly, I (we) get disappointed and betrayed by our lovers and then we are overwhelmed by this feeling of sadness and grief. So many thoughts running through our head...

“What have I done to deserve this?, is it a crime to fall in love?...” so many questions hanging in the air at a time.

Breakfast served on a clean table (heartbreak) always comes with sobbing, rage and despair which will eventually lead to loss of appetite, hatred, fury, loneliness, depression and lots more.

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But guess what? As far as all these could affect our mental health, it could also be tamed and controlled by us to regain our mental stability because we have the power to be who we choose to be. I knew it was okay for me to grieve my heartbreak but I didn’t stay too long on it, as there are better things ahead for me to focus on.

I’m in the best position to love and cherish myself the most, so I choose to pick myself up and take care of myself. I never allowed anyone diminish my worth. Better days ahead!

After trying hard to act as if nothing happened, I got to realize that I needed to forgive myself and not being to hard on myself. Then, I did just that! I forgave myself and the one who hurt me totally despite the hatred I harboured in my heart towards him. The forgiveness makes the burden of heartbreak feel lighter on my shoulder.

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After the processes, I felt great and noticed that life won’t end because of someone else’s grievous act to the other. There are other stages like this in ones life apart from emotional ones like this.

Probably you are treading through this same road. This might be helpful at this time and you can also share in the comment section, your experience on how you cleaned your mouth after your breakfast was served.

Thanks for reading!!