Relationship Break Up.

Good day to all Hivian, it's a pleasure to partake in the first contest of the week in the Hive learners community for week 33, edition 01.


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The word Rejection can be defined as the state of being rejected or the act of rejecting. It is derived from the word Reject, which simply means To refuse to accept. Actually rejection is a very bad experience, most especially when you are rejected and someone that is lower in qualifications was to replace you.

I will like to share my experience of rejection and how I was able to overcame the period, though it's not easy but yet I scape through.


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Relationship of three years forfeit as a result of rejection, my first year in higher institution during my N.C.E (Nigerian Certificate in Education) program, I met a lady her name is Temitopeoluwa which means I have reason to thank the Lord so, I proposed to her and we both agreed to start a relationship which lasted for just three years.

During the period of our relationship she was working in an office as a clerk, so many times she complained about a particular man that is disturbing her in her work place. Initially, I was not bothered not knowing that it will eventually lead to my rejection in the relationship.

After some times, I discovered that the man was actually making love advances towards my lady, so I decided to confront my lady and she didn't denied it rather she complained that she can't continue the relationship with me, she said since I'm still in school and she is getting older day by day.


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So, after much deliberation she break up with me and went for the other man just because the man was working as at that time, but my greatest disappointment was that the man was an illiterate, so I feel rejected.

After the break up, I determined to study hard and succeed so I dedicated my time to my studies, and as a result of this act of mine I was able to overcome the rejection I was experiencing as at that time. To the glory of God, I succeed after much effort and today the lady has broke up with the man after giving birth to a child, but now she's calling me to reconcile.

This is my entry for the weekly contest
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Wow! I’m sorry you had to go through that. Now I’m stuck thinking of the girl was wrong to do that. She told you she was getting old, a lot of girls are afraid of staying unmarried.

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Thank you bro for visiting my post, I appreciate

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Reconcile ke? After a child? Hahahaha 😂
She's funny! So, she expect you to come father her own child? It's impossible na!
Seriously, I don't know the problem of most ladies. Well, it's both with the genders. They don't appreciate a value until it is lost and they start begging to be back.

If she had endured with you, I am sure she won't have ended with an illiterate. But rejection most times, happen for a good reason. You were able to focus on your studies more and even had time for yourself.

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Abi na, I have all the time to concentrate on my studies, thanks for the comments.

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I’m sorry that happened to you man. It hurts to be sold out in that way.

Anyways, that was no loss for you, but a complete one for her. As long as you moved with pure intensions, good will come your way. You’ll find a better lady, one that respects you enough to either tell you she doesn’t want you directly or loves you enough to not stab you in the back like this.

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That's true my brother, even now I have a lover now that gives me peace of mind and have the same goals as I am, thanks for visiting my blog.

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So, after much deliberation she break up with me and went for the other man just because the man was working as at that time, but my greatest disappointment was that the man was an illiterate, so I feel rejected.

My response to you might seem controversial but its just my opinion , I might be right or wrong but its just my opinion...

Now would you feel disappointed if the man was not an illiterate ??I guess not..at least from the way you sound, the disappointment came when you realized that she left you for a man who is not educated...But sometimes she might see beyond the education, the man might not be educated like you said but there might have been something that got her attracted to him..Probably because she felt he was doing better than you...Though I do not really support her decision of breaking up with you...

But I feel strongly that you should not feel rejected because of that , infact you should be happy she left , if she was yours she will be yours..Que sera sera

After the break up, I determined to study hard and succeed so I dedicated my time to my studies, and as a result of this act of mine I was able to overcome the rejection I was experiencing as at that time

I am glad to hear this..

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You are absolutely right, that if she's mine definitely she will be mine but thank God today I have a lover of mine who gives me joy at all time, and the lady now she's a single mother already divorced. Thanks for reading my write-up.

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One thing I have come to learn about rejection is that no one loves to be rejected..

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Of course yes, rejection is not good and nobody will feel good if he/she was rejected, thanks for commenting.

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You posted this twice and I guess you didn't know🥲

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Oh yes, I forgot to use the right tags on the first one, so I need to repost it with the right tags.

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Feeling rejected most especially in a relationship is not a good state to be in , I have been there before and it was a nasty experience..

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Like seriously, it's an awkward moment but God have reason for everything, today I'm happily engaged to a lady of virtue, thanks for reacting to my write-up.

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I am sorry to hear your breakup story.. you will find a better partner soon..

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Thanks for your concern, but the good news is I already had someone now who is a child of God, very respectful and she's educated. Thanks for commenting on my post.

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These days relationship breakups are now a normal, you see couples parting ways for no good reason.

Thanks for sharing.

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Thanks for visiting my post, I appreciate

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