A Fear That Will Never End | A Fear That Will Always Stay With Me

Hi,
This is Shiekh Nouman from Pakistan and through this post, I am gonna share "My Fear That will Never Gonna End".

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Everyone has fear from childhood and they fight till they grow up but sometimes fear never goes away. Losing a loved one is a fear that lasts as long as you live. I also have had the same fear/feeling since my childhood and I get scared of it whenever I think about it.

Losing one of my family or friends is one of the biggest things that I feel will never go away, I know it's my love for them but on the other hand, obviously, everyone has to die one day. And we can't run away from this truth, but this fact shakes me inside.

One question that always remains unanswered in my mind is "what would I do without them". My parents loved and supported me even though I wasn't born, and my siblings always loved and cared for me even though we fought and didn't talk to each other. My friends with whom we build a relationship on our own, This is not an easy task to live without them.

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I am living a healthy and happy life because of all these, I meet my friends every weekend and spend a good time with them. Every day when I get home, meet my parents and siblings, and we share happiness with each other. My mother cooks food for all of us and we eat it happily. Sometimes when I get busy and don't make it in time for dinner, my mom doesn't go to bed until I get there and eat my meat.

My father whom I am able to face the reality of the real world, supported me to reach my goals. Because of my father, I am a successful businessman today. I owned my own business just because of him. Who helped and supported me in every difficult time of my life. Who sacrificed their youth for our good future and never took advantage of that favor. What will happen when someone from them will leave us. How I spend my life without them, How I face my difficulties without them.

I know one day it's going to be real, someone will leave me and I'll have to face this time like everyone else. I know it's not just me who will face this every one of us have to face it and some others are already facing it. I still remember the day my best friend's father died and I spent three days with him only to realize he wasn't alone. I didn't tell him that I couldn't sleep well for a week thinking about him and myself.

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Not only if I die in front of them and they have to face the same problems, the pain when your loved one leaves you. I know we can't stop it because it's not in our hands. I know no one dies without someone but I fear the pain we have to endure for them. I cannot see anyone sad, in any difficulty or pain. As humans, I know this is normal for us but it also scares me inside.

I wish that everything is fine, I pray that Allah keeps me and everyone's parents safe, I wish that Allah keeps us all happy and we all have a good life



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The fear of our loved ones being snatched from us is the greatest of all. It is because once they are gone, there is no way of mending the loss. We need to live with the space they left behind them. Almost all of us have this fear and the irony is we have to face the reality. There is no sanctuary from this reality

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This is the reality we have to live with, we can pray for them when they leave us. Indeed, there are only two things in the world that people leave behind a good character and good children, good character is useful in life and good children in the hereafter.

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You are right. Good children are the legacy. Sadqa e jaria

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it is one of the bigget fear of our life that we do not want to lost our love relations. we always pray for their safty. some time fear of failure in real life also make us very much worse. yes fear is every where in our life but some fear help us to make us successful and care full in our life. some fear bring harder in our life. so every fear is not bad and every fear is not good. so from childhood to adult , we have to face fear in every field of life.you wrote very well article.

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Yes, it is true, we always pray for their safety. I was a lazy person who hated hard work but if I compare myself with my past, I just don't have time for myself because now I worry about the comfort of my loved ones and not myself. Thanks for the compliment❤

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No one wants to leave their loved ones but we can't control death when it comes. We would only be left to nurse the pain and endure till we can let go of it and move on with our lives.

We all fear death as we do not want our loved ones to go. How would we cope without them? It's so hard but we have no choice. Our prayer is for God to keep us safe always.

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This is the reality and we have to accept it, we have to live without them when they leave us. We can only pray for them. Thanks for stopping by...

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The pain of losing a loved one can be unbearable. That is why it is so scary. No one wants o lose the ones they hold dear to them. But then, life happens.

Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Sad but this is the reality we all have to face in our lives. Thanks for stopping by...

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