Memories That Remind Me Of How Much I've Evolved
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Hello dear hivers, trust you're having such a great day ?
It's my first time blogging here and I'm super excited to share my article in this great community.
So let's get right into it, shall we? 😊
I remember about 3 years ago, I had a dear friend who was like everything to me. We had a lot of things in common and I'd evweything; and I mean everything together.
I loved her guts, her sharp wittedness was like no other. Did I mention she had a good sense of humour? 🙂
Along the line, there was a very serious misunderstanding that led to the end of our relationship. It wasn't easy for me at first bit I soon learned to allow time heal those open Wounds.
There was one particular day that she sent a message to me through my sisters mobile phone because I didn't have one at the moment (courtsey of her) and the context of that text left a whole in my heart for a long time.
I didn't concern myself with the first part if the text messages because they were all just written in an overloaded sense of pride and lies but the second part got my attention.
What did she say?
She said that she had seen enough of me and there was nothing more to me....
Wow... Like a slang in my country will say she don see me finish..
That means that she had become over familiar with me that there wasn't anything new to her about me. I had become mere to her.
So, she didn't care about our friendship and was indirectly saying that her friendship with me made me important. In other words; I was of no use.
Now, looking at how much I've achieved and what I've become, I can't help but wonder at how things have changed in such a short time.
A Network marketer in an amazing Swedish brand, a Web developer in training, a blogger on hive and much more...
And to think that someone once told me that there's nothing more to me again just makes the outcome all the more sweeter.
How can a fish swim in one part of the ocean and brag to it's friends that it knows every angle of the ocean? Absurd right?
It made me realise that there's just too much in me for the world to contain or even exhausted and it's still unfolding. The development is just endless.
It's great to know that I've evolved into someone better and more glorious.
What memories do you have that reminds you of how amazing you are, and how much you've achieved despite what others thought of you?
I'd love to know them and celebrate you 🤗😊
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Achievement-wise, I think being a father has been one of the greatest achievements that I had this year. Being a parent is quite hard but was able to manage it well ( I guess). Juggling work, Hive, and onboarding people say no more! I do have some consulting on the side but overall it is an amazing journey now and can't go back to the way I am before.
That's great. Being able to handle parenting, work and Hive requires super human power which you have. I know you've learnt & grown so much better than the way you used to be. More.bkessings to you and thanks so kindly for sharing your achievements. Thanks for reading also. 😊
Just see how I have changed your life. Am I not trying 😋😀😁
Hahaha you're so funny dear. Thank you all the same 🤗😊😊
It's amusing how folks believe they've seen everything there is to see. I mean, there's so much more to everyone you know than meets the eye. We grow and change every day, so to suggest that there is nothing remarkable about a person is nonsense.
It's a good thing you recognized your own worth and didn't allow her insults discourage you. Who can say? She might have been envious of you for reasons you didn't consider. People are capable of such behavior.
Look at you now, shining three years later.
Reading your comment puts lots of smiles on my face.
You're right, maybe she was envious of me and I didn't know. I just didn't want to see it that way in order to guide my heart from bitterness.
Thank God for the outcome 3 years later.
Thanks so kindly for your sweet and compelling words. Have an excellent day ahead. Stay blessed.
Which was a very good move you made. It was a healthy one, in fact. It was beneficial to your mental health because it relieved you of the burden of harboring such bitterness.
Have a blessed day, Amachree.
I almost thought it was Amarachi. Lol.
Don't worry, you wouldn't be the 100th person to mistake my name for Amarachi 😄😄
Thanks so kindly 😊
Well, I actually will not be on that list. "Amachree" has been duly noted.
I am only curious to know how it is pronounced.
Yay! 🤗
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Familiarity breeds contempt. This is a quote that is always taken for granted until it's experienced by a person. Your friend was even honest enough to tell you that she has had enough of you, some people won't even say it but rather use their body language and actions to indicate that they have "seen you finish".
I'm glad you didn't let her words get to you but rather worked on yourself and achieved greatness. And it doesn't even end here, there's still lots of room for you to grow and it will be even more interesting if that your "friend" can see what you have achieved
Yeah, it couldn't have been said better. I really thank God for everything. And yes, she'll see it and have to deal with loads of regrets. Thank you so much for your beautiful words.