Needed but not a true necessity

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And I had to agree to it.

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My daughter recently faced difficulty in her eyes while reading and she wanted me to take her to Lenskart directly, for testing her eye power and get a spec, if necessary and I was not in favor of going to Lenskart to test her eyes, as I am a little old school and prefer traditional eye hospital. The way Lenskart is growing feels like, they are creating a hype in young generation, to feel like wearing a nice spec is an absolute necessity. I have been using a reading glass while working, and I just pick cheap ready to use glasses, because that meets my need and I don't feel like spending a lot just for the look. So we had a deal - if she really needs a spec, then we will consider her request to go to Lenskart, but only if an eye hospital prescribe it.

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So I took her to a reputed eye hospital located near to us and they did all kind of tests, not just vision testing. They are pretty genuine (they do not do any marketing to sell their spec) and prescribed a spec for reading, without pushing us to buy from them. But I still could not convince my daughter to buy the spec from their store, because she did not like the look and wanted to buy only from Lenskart. This is a probably because of a generation shift, because they don't like old school like us.

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It was not a true necessity to buy from there, but at times, its simply not in our best interest to force on the kids, as we had a deal to be considerate.

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Look at her face, how happy she is to go to Lenskart. As this was our first visit to a nearest store, we all helped her to choose from several options, with a price range matching our budget. If you allow kids to buy anything, then they will not think about our pocket, so that's the reason, we have some basic rules to give them flexibility based on our budget only and both the lady and me feel that they must understand and cooperate.

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And they do have some nice marketing strategy to pinch your pocket - gold membership, buy 1 get 1 etc and the boy was tempted to get a sun-glass for him using the offer.

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Look Papa, there won't be much extra to pay if we go with this offer, bla bla bla - they all convinced me and I was thinking, why these stores are rapidly growing - they know where to hit, a promised feeling to convince us to spend extra.

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Now that they have a gold membership, they wanted me to upgrade my spec and get a better one from Lenskart to elevate the look - ok, let's go home now and I will give a second thought later.

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So sorry to really hear about the struggle your daughter is facing regarding her eyes

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Blurt Stands — While Hive Stumbles Under the Weight of Its Own Shadows

Friends, creators, truth-tellers—

Let us not whisper this truth, but proclaim it with the clarity of dawn breaking over a weary land: Blurt.blog is not just another platform. It is a refuge. A rebellion. A return to what Hive.blog was always meant to be.

There is no downvote button on Blurt.
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Because we understand that a voice, once raised in sincerity, deserves space—not sabotage.

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Contrast this with what festers elsewhere.

On Hive.blog—a place once brimming with promise—a rot has taken root. Not in its code, but in its culture. A handful of self-anointed enforcers—@themarkymark, @Buildawhale, @Hurtlocker, and their legion of coordinated puppets—have turned the downvote into a weapon of mass discouragement. They strike not at “low-quality content,” but at independent thought, at rising voices, at anyone who dares thrive outside their narrow corridors of control.

And when confronted, they shrug.
“Oh, it’s not censorship,” they say, as if semantics could scrub the stain of suppression from their hands.

But let us be unequivocal:
When a system allows a few to systematically silence many—under the guise of “community standards” or “curation”—that is not moderation. That is censorship by another name.

It is the velvet glove over the iron fist.
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If you seek a place where your voice is not a target—but a gift—come to Blurt.
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The world needs to know.
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Freedom doesn’t advertise itself—
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And tonight, the torch burns bright on Blurt.

@themarkymark, @buildawhale, @usainvote, and associated accounts:

Repeated downvotes targeting transparency efforts raise urgent questions about Hive’s governance. Automated tactics, coordinated curation trails, and alt-account farming undermine trust in the platform. When truth is silenced without dialogue, it erodes Hive’s decentralized ethos.

Key Concerns:

  1. Systemic Manipulation:

    • Coordinated downvotes from high-HP accounts suppress dissent, creating a chilling effect on free expression.
    • Automation and alt-account networks allegedly exploit rewards, distorting organic curation.
  2. Community Exodus:

    • Creators flee to platforms like Blurt, where downvotes don’t exist, fearing punitive curation over engagement.
  3. Governance Crisis:

    • Hive’s credibility hinges on accountability. Who decides what content thrives? How do we audit power structures?

Solutions Needed:

  • Curation Transparency: Publish clear rationales for downvotes to foster trust.
  • Community Audits: Leverage blockchain data (e.g., Bilpcoin’s analyses) to identify abusive patterns.
  • Reward Reform: Adjust algorithms to penalize manipulation and reward authentic engagement.

The Bilpcoin team advocates for open dialogue, not division. Hive’s future depends on collaboration—not coercion. Let’s rebuild a platform where truth isn’t buried but debated, strengthened, and celebrated.

Transparency isn’t optional—it’s the foundation of trust.

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A Message to @themarkymark, @buildawhale, and Associates

Every downvote cast in shadow, every silence imposed without dialogue, is not a victory—it is a confession. A confession that truth cannot be stifled, only delayed. With each punitive click, you dig deeper into the bedrock of credibility, crafting a chasm between your actions and the community’s trust.

@themarkymark, @buildawhale & Co,

How can you continue to downvote the truth, LOL? It’s almost comical how blatantly you attempt to suppress what cannot be hidden. The blockchain records everything—every action, every transaction, every move you make. Yet still, you persist in this futile game of trying to silence what is undeniable.

@themarkymark, @buildawhale, and Co: While our opinions may differ, on-chain transparency reveals repeated patterns of concern. Coordinated downvotes without explanation, 'farming' schemes (e.g., #buildawhalefarm), and adversarial engagement harm Hive’s community-driven ethos.

Key Issues to Address:

  1. Downvote Practices: Silencing dissent erodes trust. Constructive dialogue, not punitive curation, fosters growth.
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  3. Community Impact: Driving users to platforms like Blurt/Steemit weakens Hive. Creators seek ecosystems that value collaboration over conflict.

A Path Forward:

  • Engage in open discussions about governance and fairness.
  • Audit curation practices to align with Hive’s decentralized values.
  • Prioritize transparency—publish explanations for downvotes or collaborative reforms.

The Bilpcoin team remains committed to exposing truth and advocating for solutions. Let’s work toward healing, not division.

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@themarkymark & Co, the choice is yours. Stop the bad downvotes. Turn off the BuildaWhale scam farm. Cease playing with people’s livelihoods. Let Hive thrive as it was meant to—as a beacon of hope, creativity, and collaboration.

Or step aside and let those who truly care take the reins.

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It’s over.

The Bilpcoin team brings these truths not out of malice but necessity. We have no need to fabricate lies or cloak our intentions CALL US WHAT YOU LIKE —for the facts speak loudly enough on their own. What we present here is not conjecture but reality, laid bare for anyone willing to see.

@themarkymark & Co we urge you once more: STOP. Stop hiding behind tactics that harm others. Stop clinging to practices that erode trust within the Hive community. Let the truth stand—not because we proclaim it, but because it exists independent of any one person’s approval or disdain.

TURN OFF THE BUILDAWHALE SCAM FARM

  • STOP THE BAD DOWNVOTES
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  • Downvote abuse
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Haha nice specs!

I never had glasses till recent years and wondered if the “you are older than 40 now so you need glasses” sentiment was born out of the need to sell more glasses.

Now that I have taken on an eyewear client, I have come around to the notion that glasses are worth investing in because of what they can do for your eye health, AND the fact you always have glasses on and they are a big part of your style/wardrobe.

I too went to get an eye exam/new prescription lately and am buying online because they seem 90% less expensive.

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Ah sometimes you just have to accept the kids are 😎 cool haha. Do you remember when you were young liking what your parents didn't? But it is also a good teaching moment too, to tell them how sneaky marketing works ..

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Do you remember when you were young liking what your parents didn't?

Well, I would say when we were kid, we didn't have much knowledge and exposure, so whatever parents said, that was always happily accepted, because we always felt, they are the best to guide us. But things are now different - these kids think, we don't know anything :)

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Whenever possible, you should please your children, my friend, but the idea isn't to fulfill all their wishes. The important thing is that your children are happy, and their happy faces can be seen in the photographs.

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Chandni chowk is good hub for cheaper glasses...not in quality terms but price wise. It is a wholesale market, and one get their specs ready in no time. ..also multiple framing option ranging from Rs.100 to Rs 500 so easily one can pocket multiple specs at no cost...these stores is looting hub.

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these stores is looting hub

true and now a days the world runs on marketing.

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What could he do, my friend, was simply to make his children happy, as long as he set limits so they wouldn't go overboard? Perhaps they weren't the most essential things, but sometimes indulging in what we need most helps aesthetically, and aesthetics are a big plus. But also, and from personal experience, I can tell you that when they earn their own money, they'll probably opt for the cheapest options, even if they aren't the most beautiful.

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I think you handled this well. Eye health should always come before trends, and it’s good that you insisted on a proper hospital check while still considering her preferences.

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At least it brought her joy. She won't feel being left out.

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😅😅😅
It's why they are in business and selling huge. They know the right sales pitch to hit to get you to spend more. I'm sure your daughter was happy after getting her specs. And I'm happy you all went as a family. Must have been fun.

This reminds me, I need to go get my own eyes checked out!

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