[WE-148] The Love of Love: I Feel at Ease with People I Love
I am happy that I love, and I am happy that I get to experience it. Feeling love and getting love from those who are important to you is enough to make you feel strong. Because you know, they can give you the assurance that your entire existence is a blessing to them and that you matter. You don't need to seek it out from anybody else because with just your family, it is already enough.
We don't need to be in a relationship with the opposite sex to feel love. And as for me, I prefer the kind of love that lasts forever, which I can only get from my closest family member, my mother. Although I can also get hurt because of them, my love for them is so much stronger than the pain, and the amount of love I have for them is overflowing.
And I am happy that I can get that pure love to those who surround me, and I don't need to look for it. I can feel their love through their care, I can feel their love through their nagging at me, I can feel their love through their sadness whenever I am sick, and I can receive love because they see me as an important person in their life. I know that because I can feel it.
And that's what I love about that kind of love. It is an indirect way of showing love, but I can already catch the meaning behind it. Although I can view them sometimes as a bad thing and they can cause me pain, at the end of the day, the realization will hit me hard after the pain is gone. "They did it because they care," that's all there is to it.
And because of that, I became more optimistic about life. I may have a lot of insecurities about my body, but I don't let those insecurities stop me from viewing life on the positive side. I can handle my pain just fine; I can be happy whenever I am sad because that's what I chose to do; and if I want to, I can also heal the negativities lingering on my system.
I mean, after all, it is a choice. If you want it and if you are so firm in your decision to choose happiness that is full of love, then claim it. No, no, just grab it and never let go of it. Love is a beautiful feeling in the world, and I know some who were healed because of it. It resulted in a beautiful story, which has become an inspiration to some, including me. That's why I love to love.
Thanks to heaven, I learned how to love. Because if not, for sure, I still have those unwanted and negative feelings in my heart. I was blinded with hatred before, but now I'm healed and found. Because I accepted love, I am only experiencing this now. We don't need to ask why we are unhappy. We just have to open up our hearts and see the true meaning of what love is.
Love is also not perfect because it also has its disadvantages, but with the way you handle it, I still know everything will end well.
Let's spread love, shall we?
I love you madam! Nice photo by the way..
Eheeee, I love myself too madam yahahaha. I'm not sure what three is that pero ang dami nyang tinik, ang tangkad na nya but never pa sha nag bunga ano kayang puno yaan 🤔
Yung dahon nya ba is parang sa dalandan? or kalamansi?
Diko tanda hitsura ng mga dajon nila madam ahahaha
Not a lot of people can appreciate/realize that there is love when you nag someone. I mean, the first thing they’d think is that it’s hurting their feelings or making them be ashamed or anything, and never because of love. I like that you know the real reason behind it.
You can never love once you don’t receive it. And you’ll never appreciate it if you’re closing your eyes, and be narrowminded.
If you’re healed and receiving a lot of love, you can surely give it to others.
Your family is happy to have you, ruffa.
Yeah, I realize that a long time ago. While I am sulking coz I thought they are being too harsh on me, I didn't had any idea that they are just worried to me or something. I'm really glad I realize that sooner coz if not nsku, baka malala pa rin immaturity ko.
True, it's hard to give it yo someone if you yourself are having a hard time gettint it. Kaya dapat talaga happy lang hajaha.
Yayyy └|∵|┐♪
How beautiful your words @ruffatotmeee 😻 I think a good mother's love is what stabilizes. When we become adults we come to understand the why of many things in our mothers, and so we come to love them more 💟
Thank You hehe. Yeah, mother's love is the best!
Love is healing. Glad you healed from all the wounds that yearning for love has caused you and realize that you are love more than you thought.
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I so agree with that, as long as it is a pure lovr sana na walang halong hanash ba.
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I share your opinion that love is not only felt or received specifically from the opposite sex, we can also get it from our family or friends, and it will give us a lot of happiness both to give it and to receive it, I liked reading you, regards 🖖
Hehe thank you, we can receive love to anyone right, no just to boyfriend girlfriend whatsoever.
That's what we call parental love sis and no one can replace it.
True, but if you are full of hate sa heart mo di mo talaga mahahalatang it's parental love ee.
Atleast okay na ngayon Diba? Yun Ang mahalaga. You can now see their efforts and love towards you.
I found it to be a heartwarming reflection about love and relationships. You beautifully describes the comfort and joy that comes from being surrounded by people we love and who love us in return. Keep sharing!
Hehe, thank you. Stick to the people who love us and not to those people who will just use us
Our parents show their love in different ways 'no? Sometimes we don't understand it but as we grew older we realize na love doesn't revolve around happy moments. Love also means pain and sometimes those pain makes us stronger and a better person.
Great write up ate @ruffatotmeee
Yah, that's true. Their kind of way is kinda hurtful, as in. But growing up talaga marerealise nalang natin ang lahat ee. Lucky if na realise and didn't hate their parent so much pero kapag nagtanim ka ng sama ng loob, yan ang mahirap.
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