[LOH105] One Mantra a Day is not enough, that's why I Have Three.

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I always have one wish to achieve in my everyday life, and that is to always be happy. As in, sadness has no space in my heart, only happiness. Happiness is a choice, and I will always choose that over anything else. You know that, sometimes, people are having a hard time achieving that elusive "happiness." Where are you Happiness?

This may sound so easy to achieve, but to others? It is not. Because everyday, the meaning of happiness also change to some. You know that feeling of contentment with what you have right now? Or those small things that you achieve in life but make you smile. Those little things that really bring happiness to other people, just like me.


Hello beautiful Hivers, ladies and gents! Monday is about to end again. I hope you all had a great day today.


This is actually my entry for Ladies of Hive Community Contest #105. I missed the last contest but not for this week. We have two topic provided by @ifarmgirl. Thank You so much for the awesome topic this week. I will go with this topic:

Do you have a personal guiding principle (or a mantra) by which you live? If you do, what is it and how is it impacting your life so far?

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My 3 Mantra Everyday:

"Always choose Happiness"
"Get lazy all you want but make sure that morning is a productive one."
"Money is the Answer!"

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"Always choose Happiness"

No matter what my problem is, no matter how big it is, and no matter how hard life is, I will always choose happiness because happiness can give anyone peace of mind. Problems are there, yes, but I can set them aside and think only of positive thoughts. And actually, I just give myself a time limit to self-pity and think negatively, but later on, I will just forget it all. As in, completely.

Because of that, I have a positive view on life. I am a jolly person and you might even mistake me as a person who doesn't give a damn about everything, but I do too. It's just that I chose my peace of mind over anything else. Who else here wants peace of mind? I bet everybody wants that. I smile, I laugh hard, and I scream with happiness. I do all of that because laughter is the best medicine.

"Get lazy all you want but make sure that morning is a productive one."

Another mantra of mine every day. I am lazy and I can't control that sometimes, but when it comes to my work, I can stop that laziness and will start to grind again. It should be a productive morning. That's the top priority. I will do all the things that need to be done every morning, even half of them, and once they're done, that is where I will take my time to bum around. It will be a productive morning, then laziness comes next.

It is effective for me, actually. I will read 5 to 14 articles for an hour on different platforms. If ever I think of an idea or a topic, I will also write and try to get things done while doing other things. I can also do multitasking, though at a limited time, but I can do that too. But sometimes, I just set a time limit for this particular site, and then I will move on to another. I'm used to it now because I've been doing it for, like, a month.

"Money is the Answer!"

This is related to the second mantra. This is like a pill or a controller that makes me move to be productive. It's also a source of inspiration.Money is the answer to our problems, and I should grind if I want to save. I have this goal, which is to save, and I've been doing that since I started my blogging journey. If I just dilly dally on that journey, I will never have even a small amount in my wallet right now. For me to save and reach my goals, I should move, and while I still can, I should be diligent and hardworking.

Money is the answer. Maybe not all of the problems, but most of our problems can be resolved with money. Especially at this time when everything is expensive. With the inflation and the continuous rise in the price of every good and necessity, I am thinking about money and the possibility that it will never be a problem if I have savings and I know how to handle it. I think that is enough to fuel my desire to save up, and it can only happen if I work hard and wisely. "Money is the answer, Ruffa, so, move your ass and go grind like there's no tomorrow!" Go!

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I am inviting you @eybyoung, @xanreo, @volleyren20, @yen1503 and @jenthoughts to join on this challenge. Come on guys, we have a good topic this week (◍•ᴗ•◍).

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Problems are there, yes, but I can set them aside and think only of positive thoughts.

I wish i can do this kind of thing you do ruffatot, coz’ everytime i think positive, negativity takes over it like 80% of what I’m thinking

you are a strong woman for being so strong ruffatot, me ish jelly of you

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I experienced kasi na maloka loka coz of overthinking, and I don't want to be in that state again. It's gard to control them talaga but I got over it all. And in the end, ako din talaga ang naka help sa sarili ko. I'm just glad that I did coz staying in that state is really, shit. Hahaha. But now I'm stronger na talaga I think. I hope makayanan mo din yan, but I'm sure you can. Fighting mae mae ✨❤️🥰

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It's actually hard to maintain be happy in every situation in life because there are times that you have to release everything and be emptied inside. Though being happy is a choice, yet you cannot be happy all the time. It's not fix at all.

I want to be lazy but just by thinking of it makes me tired already. The more you do less, the more you get tired easily and I don't know why. It's like you used too much of your brain thinking what to do then, when the time to actually do it, you'll be lazy. What a mindset. !PIZZA

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That's true. But still depends on the person. I admit, I experienced din the sadness and emptiness but I really hate feeling that you know. And maybe because of that, kaya I can br happy pa rin even if the situation is not that good.

Haha your body is used to moving na din kasi, your mind too. Ganyan mga oldies ko ee. NSanay sila na may ginagawa kaya kapag tamad tamadan sila, di rin sila mapakali talaga.

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I like the third mantra, Ruff! They said that money can't buy happiness. What if you can be retired early, spend time with loved ones, and travel the world? Wouldn't that be hapiness? I think it is also how we view money. Money is not evil at all. Being greedy for money is! This is a good read, Ruff! Nice one.

!PIZZA

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Yayyy, that's what I'm saying too. Money can really do a lot. And definitely, it can make anyone dam happy. Naku, si Mama kapag nagsusungit, abutan mo lang ligayang ligaya na. Mana ako dun ee, lol. Money can buy my Happiness, mababaw din kasi kaligayahan ko ✨☺️

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Those are great combo and they seem to work very well for you sis! And I can quite relate why you are more productive in the morning.

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Yiehhh, it really is. They work very well and thanks to that kahit magpa hila hilata nalang ako sa hapon keri na, balik sa nalanh sa hapon hihi. At least, I already did a lot that morning.

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Yon ang maganda, matapos lahat and then yung oras sa hapon pwede ilaan sa other things.

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Money is not the answer to everything but can give temporary happiness.. There is more important stuff than that though..

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It is for me tho, hahaha. I know, but for now, the oy thing that can make me happy is money haha.

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That's some good things to tell us so we can move our a*s every day. lol
Good to read you.

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Wow sana all can handle things and choose to be happy always. I always do too but sometimes i can feel angry and happiness will be gone. i wanted to be active as possible but sometimes chores for a mom and housewife would hinder me to do so plus my cellphone who has a very low signal. Yes, money is the answer thats why we are grinding and finding some side hustles.

Thanks for the invite sis @ruffatotmeee. Try ko hehehe

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Hehehe, I prefer Happiness kasi talaga more than anything. That is why siguro nagiging easy sya for me.

I can relate to that, same with me. But Ill be okay again after spending time with my friends here. Yong pagiging activr lang talaga ang mahirap maachieve no UwU.

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You are very honest !! I laughed with the money one, hahaha, because many people will not admit it but it is partly valid as you expose it. I was one of those who said a lot "oh no, money is not that important for me or I don't care about money" but years later I learned that money is what really moves the world (also love) I am not a greedy person but I accept that I cannot live without money, some of my comforts are due to money and I have to work for it, it does not come alone

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Hahaha, see see, that's what I'm saying. It's not like when you exchanged love words to your partner everything will be solved. If they are born woth silver spoon, that maybe works but not to us right haha. We still need money, because this is what really moves everything now. And yeah, it is not greediness, we just know now how important money is in our life.

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This mantra of yours was stunning however, there are times that you can't even define what happiness means. Char, Galing galing Ropaa

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Awwww, you are like that ba Muuunay ka. And sad naman kapag ganon.

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