CONCURSO COMUNITARIO. LADIES OF HIVE # 119. LA ZONA DE CONFORT. HASTA SE JUSTIFICA / COMMUNITY CONTEST. LADIES OF HIVE # 119. THE COMFORT ZONE. IT'S EVEN JUSTIFIED

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Hola comunidad de @ladiesofhive gracias por su propuesta, me uno y me pone a pensar episodios de mi vida que puedo meternos en esa expresión moderna de la zona de confort y recordarlos también me coloca en la posibilidad de sentir donde quiero estar. That of the comfort zone has to do with an existential response definitely.

THE COMFORT ZONE. IT EVEN JUSTIFIES ITSELF

I confess that I had to document myself to distinguish my comfort zone, I don't know if it is the time in life or the feeling I get when it happens. I think it is my own judgment and I asked myself how many times have I felt comfortably safe? Staying in that state is conducive, accommodating and perfect, how could I want to get out of it?

Now the imprinting happens when I have decided to move into a different style. This has happened to me by my own decision, by feeling the wear and tear of something that no longer makes me feel comfortable or simply wanting something different and going for more, it is a state of wanting to push me towards that decision even without knowing what things may be happening, because it has always been of uncertainty.
Aún y cuando he sentido, también cierto grado de seguridad hacia donde me aproximo, también con el tiempo he tenido tropiezos con esto de salirme de mi zona de confort, cosa que al parecer sucede en esa expresión. Últimamente han sido dudas, ganas de quedarme e irme como una adolescente sin saber todavía a donde quiero llegar.

COMFORT, WELL-BEING OR MORE WELL-BEING

Comfort is then "conditions that provide well-being", that's why I said that who wants to stop being there. Here the issue is the extreme in which existentially that is not so much comfort.
I think I started with these changes, when I have made drastic decisions, especially to move, that has happened to me every 10 years in my life, it is a kind of biological chronometer, which responds to feelings of doubt and certainty at the same time. I have moved from Caracas to Guatire, from Guatire to Caracas and from Caracas to El Junquito. Every time that happens it is like that to extremes.

What has happened to me is that today I understand that moving to another place to live has nothing to do with the place or the economic, political or cultural conditions of the country. I believe that wherever I go, I go with everything, my joys, my sadness, my parties, my emotions, my desires. That is what defines my "I am".

With the passing of the years I have lost the impetus... I speak of that force that pushes me and I feel an impulse for my moves, the last one in which I am almost 10 years old and this does not have to do with a deadline that I set myself, it is rather a phenomenon that I have observed; I was saying that the last one puts me in doubt, I still do not have that determination to leave, but I confess that it has already been put in my mind.

It is possible that it is a belief, because over the years I feel that less is more and I am wanting to see myself in a small, simple and cozy space, easy to clean and with amenities to mobilize even in the area. About 40 meters would suit me just fine.

FEELING OF SECURITY

A way out of my comfort zone different from moving, which I liked a lot and that is why I say it is another feeling of wellbeing was when I decided to ask for my retirement from my job... Yes, 25 years in my place of work. And the feeling of wanting to move appeared and I can't stop that, not even with impossible circumstances, I don't see impossible in that. It turns out that I went to my Je fe and told him that I wanted to leave and that I only had 1 year left to retire, so obviously I would not resign, or seek a rest, but that I was not going to come more, to help me with that. It's funny but that certainty of getting out of there always puts me in a timely vibe, where things fall into place in my favor and I always have the feeling of that steadiness.

Well, my boss's answer was: Are you studying, if you are studying, look for all your documents and I will sign a paid leave.... Ready... I did not know where all that was taking me, I think it was more comfort, although working on my own was something totally new and difficult because I had always been in an office and this new decision put me to do work on the street. However, I stayed that way for about 2 years until the pandemic arrived.

I have learned, for example, to lose the fear of changing spaces, I believe that we belong to the world, geographical limits do not really exist, they are just rules, we belong to everything.