Why does my little son have this attitude, what should I do? [ESP-ENG]
Estimados padres y madres espero estén bien, cumpliendo ese rol tan importante que tenemos ! sí que es una verdadera responsabilidad!, ¿Verdad?. ¿Les ha pasado que en oportunidades su hijo o hija tiene una actitud que no esperabas?. Quiero hablarles de las actitudes que nuestros pequeños hijos tienen y que muchas veces nos sorprenden.
Dear fathers and mothers, I hope you are well, fulfilling this important role that we have, it is a real responsibility, isn't it? Has it ever happened to you that your son or daughter has an attitude that you did not expect? I want to talk to you about the attitudes that our little children have and that many times surprise us.
Compañeros les ha pasado que han visto actitudes en los pequeños de la casa que no sabemos de quién lo aprendió 🤔. Si tenemos varios niños es normal que uno copie la actitud o aptitudes de sus hermanos, pero ¿cuando solo tenemos un hijo o hija y hacen cosas que se supone que no han visto de otro?. Y nos preocupa cuando éstas han sido frecuentes y aún más si se están tornando con falta de respeto, mentiras o peor aún obscenas.
Colleagues, has it ever happened to you that you have seen attitudes in the little ones of the house that we don't know from whom they learned it 🤔. If we have several children it is normal for one to copy the attitude or skills of their siblings, but when we only have one son or daughter and they do things that they are not supposed to have seen from another? And it worries us when these have been frequent and even more if they are becoming disrespectful, lying or even worse obscene.
Quienes queremos que nuestros hijos no nos avergüencen ¿verdad que nos preocupa las actitudes que tienen en algunos momentos?, Y si estás malas actitudes las tienen frente a familiares y amigos ¡que mal nos sentimos! 😔, al ver esto comenzamos a indagar con quién a compartido los últimos momentos, que ha estado viendo o escuchando ya sea en los programas de televisión o en la música. Pero para ello necesitamos dedicar tiempo y prestar atención cómo juegan y que dicen mientras están con otros niños.
Those of us who want our children not to embarrass us, don't we worry about the attitudes they have in some moments, and if they have bad attitudes in front of family and friends, how bad we feel! 😔, seeing this we start to inquire with whom they have shared the last moments, what they have been watching or listening to either in TV shows or music. But for this we need to spend time and pay attention to how they play and what they say while they are with other children.
Pienso que si deseamos corregir de la manera más correcta a nuestros hijos es dedicando tiempo a ver qué les está afectando pues si no lo hacemos cuando aún se pueden modificar esas actitudes será más difícil cuando estás agarren más fuerza y sean imposibles eliminarlas de la personalidad que ya han adquirido. Claro no queremos ser un fiscal todo el tiempo pero si prestar suma importancia a esas reacciones que nos dejan paralizados.
I think that if we want to correct our children in the most correct way it is by dedicating time to see what is affecting them because if we don't do it when we can still modify those attitudes it will be more difficult when they become stronger and impossible to eliminate them from the personality they have already acquired. Of course we don't want to be a prosecutor all the time, but we do want to pay attention to those reactions that leave us paralyzed.
Isn't it true that something that seems to be against us is time? Well, we need more time to keep up with everything. Maybe that is our case, but as long as we don't stop doing our homework we can keep talking to them and correct them with love. For example: while they watch television, we can watch with them or turn up the volume so that we can listen. I have already noticed that many of the programs that we think are harmless actually transmit messages that hidden behind cartoons teach selfish violence among other things, which in the long run will affect the good learning that we are giving to our children.
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Not to mention the lyrics of some of the music that is now common to listen to because it promotes immorality, love of money, far from inculcating self-love, much less altruistic love. To make matters worse, that kind of music is quite flashy 😱. Hence we cannot expect the situation in young people to improve if they allow themselves to be educated with such teachings. As long as we do our job for now let's pay attention now before it's too late.
A big hug my friends and congratulations for your magnificent work you do daily as parents. See you soon.
Estoy de acuerdo contigo en relación de que debemos estar pendiente, es errado pensar que con solo hablar con ellos será suficiente, por supuesto como bien lo dices sin llegar al punto de ser un fiscal obsesivo detras de ellos, pero siempre es recomendable no caer en distracciones u omisiones con nuestros hijos, para evitarnos sorpresas.
Gracias por compartir🤗
Es cierto que ahora hay muchas distracciones y eso hace que esté más cargado nuestro trabajo como padres pero estar pendientes en lo que podamos hará en vez de que la actitud de nuestro hijo nos cause vergüenza sea que nos de orgullo. Gracias a ti por pasar y leer mi publicación. 🤗
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