Barriers To Enjoying Life

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Is life for enjoying? Is life for only studying? Is life for doing the work that you don't like? What is exactly life to you? Some people say, " I don't have time to enjoy my life right now, I want to build a position and to build the position I can do anything I can sacrifice anything of my life although that can be the most favourite hobby of mine I can Immolate without thinking twice at the time. "

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When people say these kinds of things I'm like oh man really? Are you really sure that you will also have the same life cycle like the majority of people have? Are you sure about the time of your death? Alright, Anyway, let me Ignore the death case, If you are unable to make the position and get a cheater life than before what will you do then? Don't you regret that moment?

Just imagine you failed to reach the position and at the time you have faced the most universal truth of life, which is death then what would you do that time, the time also you couldn't regret for that. Because you have no time to do that too. I love to travel, when I go to my mom to say that mom I want to go for a tour.

Most of the time she replied one of the most common dialogues of her that were *You have a lot of life left to enjoy or to go for a tour. First concentrate on studying, after graduating you can do anything you can go anywhere you can fulfil your all dream and there will be no one to resist you."

At the time I asked a question to myself If I die while doing that what will happen then? That Time I found no answer from my inner soul. My philosophy to myself Enjoy and Feel every moment of your life although you're going through the toughest time of your life, can't stop enjoying, once you stop and go away from your hobby then you will lead a life like having an empty soul in you. That's why to be living I try hard to remember the formula of mine.

Let me share a story with you on this Eid day a totally shocking Incident had happened to me. After a long time approximately 3 years later I had a meeting with a group of so beloved friends of mine. I was so excited to join the meeting because they're the people with whom I love to spend my time. But, I got shocked watching a boy after a very long time there.

He doesn't enjoy eid or any kind of special day then how is he there? A question Immediately rose in my mind. Normally he doesn't come to meet up with friends on any occasion. That's why I got shocked, he was like he has to do something especial for his life after achieving his most desired position, he will enjoy his life with a lot of joy.

After greeting him I asked him, "How're you here? How is it possible you're here? Am I in a dream? He just having a little smile on his face replied, " oh, my friend! You're quite funny. By the way, the truth is I have just come from Dhaka to see all of you guys. " I answered at the Eid day at this noon, really?

By the way, It's my pleasure seeing you here. When will you get back to Dhaka? " He replied, The next day morning with a blast of a smile on the face. Is It really a life that you're leading? He replied, " I will enjoy my life after reaching at my desired position. "



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Life is all about being BRAVE to accept, learn and teach. If your mother and friend don’t understand, you should have passed your wisdom to them. By failing to do so, you are also a part of them!

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Yeah, I don't disagree with your opinions, brother. I try my best to express what I feel or what I think. But I don't like to argue with my mom to understand my point of view because she has a very soft heart what If she got hurt by my words, that's why I avoid. But when comes my friends name to deliver my opinion on anything I always play as a forward role. By the way, thank you for sharing your opinions here. Have a good day, brother!

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I respect your opinion. One day you will find your way of life.

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Thank you, thank you. It's my pleasure talking to you. Have a good day!

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Actually I also have same question, what is the meaning of life? Is that the meaning of life we are leading?

In my opinion, life is just not for achievement. We should enjoy our life by overcoming all the barriers. Don't see what others are doing or thinking. Listen the sounds of your heart.

Also remember, Our creator creates us to see how much respectful we are to him. We should enjoy our life according to the way our creator.

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I think alike. If we can't pass barriers how can we claim what is ours?

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The meaning of life differs from person to person, to me life is all about balance.

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Not everybody is the same and likes. Some enjoy their present, while others enjoy their past or future. Some care too much while others hesitate. Some are extroverts and some are introverts or omniverts. The meaning of enjoying is different for everyone.

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Yes, True Indeed! But my point was the group of people who know very well how to enjoy their life but they don't do it because they want to make a better future for themselves. To make a better future they spend most of their time on boring things.

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Yes, their perspective is flawed, but there are many people among us who do this. They waste away their present while building their future.

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When we think, there is still a lot of time to enjoy life, then life is over. Because the future is uncertain. We want to be established then we want to enjoy life. But then there is no more time to enjoy. That is why we should live for today, enjoy today.

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Exactly, that was my prime point in this writing and you got it perfectly. Thanks, thanks for your comments.

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I like the formula of yours Riaz. It shows that you have a broader perspective of life. Not many understand what is the meaning of "present".

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Thank you apu, Thank you. It means a lot😊

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