Thought of The Day - There is No Self-Sabotage

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I've just realized today that when we believe things to be bullshit, we might be ignorant, frustrated, traumatized, too proud to shift perspectives....ultimately, we might miss diversification of all kid, from crypto to accepting others' beliefs because we like to stay in the same bullsh...t frame , in a cozy box.


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I had published this article today and I am giving the link here just as a reference, you don't have to vote for it, just have a look at the ideas in it and the comments.
https://ecency.com/hive-186927/@regenerette/re-write-your-desires-and-act-be-there-for-yourself-i-ll-be-here#@capitanyoyo/re-regenerette-2021430t135048594z

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At the end of it, a guy was speaking about self-sabotage. That is a concept in which I don't fully believe.
One of my ideas is that we live taking decisions at each step and if we incline to do something, and X action, instead of a Y one, that is because our brain has already chosen more than 51% in favor of the X action. Sometimes even when we know that by doing the Y action, it might be better for us. Sometimes we just listen to our gut.
The article was also about procrastination, which I find useful for anybody who needs to unplug stress, fears, frustrations, lack of faith, and motivation....Yes, sometimes we just need to relax and do something else.

Why do seemingly intelligent people procrastinate?
Or why do intelligent people shoot themselves in the foot?

Are there really hidden patterns and belief systems within us that conspire against our best intentions?
There are the hidden reasons and the unconscious or conscious patterns that cause us to do what that guy called self-sabotage and what I call a PAUSE of breathing and feeling life.

😉 Today, I have been Hiving...a lot..I haven't saved the unicorn in CTP but I might have helped a few...Hive responders to my posts. And this means a lot to me.

I hope everybody is well, safe, loved in here.

@flax was around and guided me some extra today and I am grateful for this.

I'm sending all of you hugs and the biggest one goes to @jlufer!

From my heart to yours!
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Is it sabotage? Or is it the unseen hand of our unconscious keeping us on our true life path? I don't know. It feels exhilarating to consider it; that makes me think there's something to the idea that there is no self-sabotage, that we can just trust our flowing, even when it contradicts ideas in our brain about how we 'should' be. ... Love that you're here.

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I have expressed my belief related to self-sabotage.
And I told someone the other day that it's better to enter YOUR flow than other ppl's flow HAHA!
The rest might be a semantical play with beliefs, frames, personal considerations...But, in the end, it's just a matter of optics and dioptries....with or without my glasses, I see things alike in my "database"
Trusting the flow might take years, a lifetime, or more to others....it takes so long to come "back home" to ourselves, to recognize and accept our flow and then to embrace it and live according to our real self and wishes. Most of us are faking, hiding too scared to come up to the light. Either we're grumpy, frustrated, toxic for others and for ourselves...that is self-sabotage, but how can I condemn it when it is just a step on our path...? Testing acceptance as I feel like spitting sometimes...and say FK it! I'm done! It's no struggle, it's a new level of understanding and connecting with life itself, with myself, and with others. And, at the same time, disconnect from others....people, places, past, dreams that I had as I build some again or none...and just smell the spring and enjoy what I still have.

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More good stuff. Thank you.

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Read the other ones I have posted today. You might find something to challenge your perspective.
I am going to sleep now but I will be back tomorrow.

Thank you for being close!

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A challenge is good, however, at the moment I'm just happy to read your content that makes me say, yes, yes, yes. :) Not that there isn't much to consider and absorb and understand. :)

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What nice feedback!

Always feel free to ask me anything that you might want to know..I do not hold anything but my personal truth that I give away as a gift to many.
Have a wonderful weekend!
Btw...what are you doing this weekend?

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Working nights, sleeping (sort of) days. I work Thursday-Sunday (stocking groceries) so today is mid-week. What about you? Writing about 10 or 15 posts? ;)

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It's Easter for us here.
So, I have cooked something, relaxed...made some calls.

What do you do when you're not working?

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Sounds like a good day.

What I'm not working, I play with the crypto, curate, read, watch movies, take photos for the blog, make posts, write, walk around town and by the river or the bay, and contemplate my life.

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How are you dear friend @regenerette good afternoon
Excellent post, inspiring and thoughtful. invites a long reflection.
It's true, many times we have to stop and disconnect to start over.
Thank you very much for the love you have for me.
stay safe, take care, don't stress
Have a beautiful weekend

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You are like milk and honey for my soul. I want you to know this.
Thank you for coming by and reading and for all the care you have for me.

I am ready to sleep now and I am wishing you a beautiful afternoon and an exquisite weekend!

A warm hug is coming to you right now!

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