Abundance Tribe Bi-weekly Question - what success means to me?
success is believing in yourself that you can do it, without the help of another, where you do your best and believe in your best to fetch you the best, this is where your mind alone can act and interpret everything you ever wanted, hoping on someone that he can help you and on the process, maybe you find out that he can not do a thing for you would be somehow disheartening, I know only one man can not make a forest, but when you want to make a forest with someone and that person refuses to see you as a branch of tree, rather, took you as nothing less and always put you at your feet can never give you the success you seek for but when you are appreciated and encourage for the little you do is somewhat what is related to success.
It is not wrong for one to hope all in another, but in this our recent times, to hope on someone is just like, trying to tell yourself you can not have done it alone if you do not have a helping hands, this is where some people said, he is not man enough" yet they is no man on earth that is not man enough, everything is in our thinking, the way we think is what would gives us what we want to have in life, if we do not have this kind of positive vibes, positivity would be something that seems rather not near nor far to us but where we can only imagine this as notion in our minds.
My Dad once told me not to put my trust on anyone except GOD, that day we were somehow tipsy, because we were drinking a native alcohol, who knows if it was because of the Alcoholic that makes him said it, but as times goes on, i began to realized that he meant what he said to me, and he was giving me a life guidelines which would serves as a safer of my life to me, he told me that, not to ever belief on someone, people can fail but GOD would never failed you, instead of putting your hope on Men, put it on GOD because he alone can help you, so that you would not have to be heart broken and be crying in future that someone has hurt you.
men can help but they would always need something in return while GOD help required Nothing at all, it is just free and is free all the time, His words make me believe that, i can give myself what i want than to put too much hope on others people's, that may even has challenges like me, starting from that day, i began to see success as the things which only you can know the outcome about it although you may still need the help of others on the process but success must start by you as it must be something you are able to see within you, before others could see how determine you are and Join hands to make it a reality.