Weddings: A freewrite

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What is the thing about elaborate weddings that even those that can't afford it get themselves into dangerous traps of debt just to make it happen. I am not against people doing it of course if you are up to the task you can but my concern is for those who don't have the means but still want to do it. Going about borrowing money just to feed some sect of spectators who mostly come around just to know what become of the ceremony. It is a good thing that some comes around to share in the joy of the celebrant but we can't because of others give ourselves wounds of debt that may never heal or takes a long time to heal.

I realized that people around sometimes has a way of making things go out of control if not properly watched. People will be the one suggesting different things that is to be bought or that should be done whereas all cost huge some of money. As there is a general saying that wisdom is profitable to direct, people has the freedom of suggestions but you should have the wisdom of acceptance, once you know you aren't capable of the suggestion they brought is advisable to wisely turn it down. The truth is I love big weddings bit it shouldn't be a must when you can't afford it. Elaborate or not is not a guarantee of anything reasonable in the marriage. It shouldn't be what society force on people too. Always live according to your means.
An entry into @mariannewest everyday freewrite



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They literally have attempeted my murder and are trying to kill me with V2K and RNM. Five years this has been happening to me, it started here, around people that are still here. Homeland security has done nothing at all, they are not here to protect us. Dont we pay them to stop shit like this? The NSA, CIA, FBI, Police and our Government has done nothing. Just like they did with the Havana Syndrome, nothing. Patriot Act my ass. The American government is completely incompetent. The NSA should be taken over by the military and contained Immediately for investigation. I bet we can get to the sources of V2K and RNM then. https://ecency.com/fyrstikken/@fairandbalanced/i-am-the-only-motherfucker-on-the-internet-pointing-to-a-direct-source-for-voice-to-skull-electronic-terrorism ..... https://ecency.com/gangstalking/@acousticpulses/electronic-terrorism-and-gaslighting--if-you-downvote-this-post-you-are-part-of-the-problem

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At the same time, one should be fully prepared when it comes to marriage, be possibly over ready in terms of finance.

Even when you've invite just 50 people, prepare to host 100 and feed as a miscellaneous.

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