Ladies of Hive Community Contest #83// What was the most devastating event in your life? Express your feelings and how you coped. Esp- Eng

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Hola damas un placer saludarlas y estar aqui, de las tres preguntas la que mas capto mi atencion fue la primera:
¿Cuál fue el acontecimiento más devastador de tu vida? Expresa tus sentimientos y cómo lo has afrontado.

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Para muchos quizás un hecho devastador es la perdida física de un familiar, un amigo, pero es algo que con el tiempo sabemos que no estará mas.

Quizás mi momento mas devastador y estaba muy pequeña fue que mi papa se fuera de la casa, yo tenia 6 años y mi hermano 3 años. Recuerdo que fui a la escuela y al regresar ya no estaban sus cosas, Mi mama ya lo sabia, le vi llorar pocos días. Como mi papa trabajaba por fuera y regresaba luego, pensé que era igual esta vez.

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Cuando mi mama se sintió mejor, busco las palabras adecuadas para decirme que esta vez mi papa se había ido definitivamente de la casa, que no era como cuando iba al trabajo, que regresaba y se volvía a ir, pero ahora no.

Conforme fueron pasando los años, fui creciendo, fui viendo las cosas, no entendía o si entendí que mi papa se fue, pero porque nosotros pagamos el hecho que nunca nos busco, y mi mama nunca negó el derecho de vernos o nosotros a el.

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Para muchos el divorcio causa una fuerte impresión, pero gracias a Dios tengo una mama que nos ayudo a entenderlo, que ella estaba a nuestro lado, le pedí leer el acta de divorcio, entre las clausulas estaban que las vacaciones las debíamos pasar con mi papa a lo que me negué, porque si el se fue nunca nos busco, porque debíamos pasar vacaciones con el, mi mama me dijo que eso es una formalidad de los divorcios, ya era cuestión de nosotros decidir si queríamos o no, tampoco nos podían obligar.

Pero admiro a mi madre, gracias a ella a su apoyo siempre no me sentí tan afectada nos ha enseñado que son cosas que se pueden presentar, que se deben superar y seguir la vida. Es lo que he hecho, claro con el apoyo de mi mama.

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Hello ladies a pleasure to greet you and be here, of the three questions the one that caught my attention the most was the first one:
What was the most devastating event in your life? Express your feelings and how you coped with it.

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For many perhaps a devastating event is the physical loss of a family member, a friend, but it is something that with time we know will be no more.

Perhaps my most devastating moment, and I was very young, was when my father left home, I was 6 years old and my brother was 3 years old. I remember that I went to school and when I came back his things were gone. Since my dad worked outside and came back later, I thought it was the same this time.

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When my mother felt better, she looked for the right words to tell me that this time my father had definitely left the house, that it was not like when he went to work, that he would come back and leave again, but not now.

As the years went by, I grew up, I saw things, I didn't understand or if I understood that my father left, but because we paid for the fact that he never looked for us, and my mother never denied the right to see us or us to him.

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For many people divorce causes a strong impression, but thank God I have a mother who helped us to understand it, she was by our side, I asked her to read the divorce certificate, among the clauses were that we should spend the vacations with my father, which I refused, because if he left he never looked for us, why should we spend vacations with him, my mother told me that this is a formality of divorce, it was up to us to decide if we wanted to or not, they could not force us either.

But I admire my mother, thanks to her and her support I didn't always feel so affected, she has taught us that these are things that can happen, that we have to overcome them and go on with life. That is what I have done, of course with my mother's support.

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The worst feeling from a friend of mine is that you are left with the feeling that it may have been her fault. Of course it can be never a child's fault. Never have being told, Why? And there was no opportunity to make right. 😞

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