I'm not sure what a couple thinks of having their own baby. I'm not talking on my behalf since I don't have a baby yet. All I could tell is that seeing people having their own baby they look so happy. I could tell how their lives turned out differently when a new baby was born. Although not all couples think that way, probably most of them do.

My girlfriend's brother had his first baby at a young age. He is still young but surprisingly he overtook us even though my girlfriend is so desperate to have our own. Well, you see, not all are being gifted to have their own baby. I thought when I was younger it was alright not to have your own. When time gets longer and I get older I just realize how lovely when you have your own. It's like a new kind of happiness will be born together when a baby is born. So celebrating it by the time a baby reaches 1 month is not a must but an obligation. An obligation of your own happiness that only doing good things to your baby is very fulfilling.

This baby was born with a weight of 2.7 kg. She was lacking for weeks and possibly the mother and the grandparents were worried about it. As time passes by the baby gets bigger and healthier. I know, for a mother nothing could make them happy but seeing their child healthy. They then decided to celebrate a small feast as a celebration of a 1-month- old baby.

As an Auntie, my girlfriend helped his brother to celebrate as well. She was the one who bought the small cake and of course, I supported her. It is very obvious from how she takes care of the baby, she's hoping to have our own. She's longing for sure to have a baby since she's afraid that she may not bear one. We are getting older, and by the age of 32, she is troubled if we can really have our own.

Unlike me, I don't feel much troubled but even so, I hope we can have one to make sure the kind of happiness of being a parent will be experienced. Skipping the dramas of our own story. Still, it's not bad to feel that you are part of the celebration. Even if it's not your own, you can still feel the happiness of having a child just by watching a cute little one cry and smile. It's like it answered my questions about the existence of our life in this world.

The celebration went well, with a small amount of food and the emotions were replenished with joy. Everyone was happy that the baby is doing well and we assumed that it will be in the future for sure. More than anything else, I wish this baby and her parents will have a good life in the future even if for now they don't have a stable lifestyle yet. We can still support them in little ways and can help them if we can be of help to them.

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_{Paul is the name but prefers to be called mrnightmare that feels like living in the dream. A country boy and a dreamboy (dreamer) who likes to stay in a small village even though it means abandoning the future to become a seaman. The passion is writing but not sailing in the vast ocean. Don't wonder if the face will not be shown, this is better where the words can flow smoothly. Come, you can tell me your stories and I'll tell you mine. Together, let's explore the world by broadening our thoughts. If you need a shoulder I can lean you mine and I hope I can lean yours. The world is fun when living is not being alone but with someone.}

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