Searching for my English Culture

On occasion, I've been asked to talk about my culture and what might make it unique to other cultures around the world. Sadly I've always been at a loss, because most of the culture of the country I was born in has been lost over time. In fact anything I could tell you about I'd probably find it has been appropriated. Indeed, some years ago it was decided that our national dish was no longer fish and chips, but curry. Yet potatoes are not native to us and curry, of course, comes from Asia.

You're either confused right now or you've guessed I'm from England, or the UK or Britain, if you prefer. May as well add some more confusion to our identity. 😉 Don't worry, it doesn't bother me and I'll get around to telling you why, but first allow me to delve into history a little so we can see how the English got to this point.

I'll go back about 2600 years, which should be far enough to get an idea of the pattern. Around this time, the Iron ages, the country was pretty much inhabited by the Celtic Bretons. It's not clear how they arrived, but they seem to have been colonialists rather than invaders; although I'm unsure where you'd draw the line there. The Europeans called themselves colonists of the Americas, but I'm not sure the natives saw them that way.

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Then in 55 BC the first attempts at invasion by the Romans started with Julius Caesar. They weren't successful until 43 AD when the first city was finally conquered. For the next 360+ years, battles ensued across Britain (which was actually the section of land now called England) as the Romans extended their reach. Hadrian built a wall from 139-140 AD to mark the border and keep them out of Scotland, then by 209 AD the British forces were practically fighting to keep them behind the wall and out of Britain.

By 314 AD Christianity had been taken on across the Roman Empire and this religion would go on to oppress or assimilate much of the old beliefs, traditions and cultures that existed across Europe. It would become our new cultural identity for many years and still is to many to this day.

By about AD 400 while the Romans were trying to keep back invasions of Picts and Scots from the north, the Anglo Saxons were encroaching in the weakening south. In desperation, help was requested from Rome and they were told they were on their own. So in 410 the last of the Romans withdrew and left Britain to try and defend itself, leaving some Roman genetics and culture behind in those who called it home over the years.

Anglo Saxons is actually a term for three groups of Germanic tribes invading around this time; the Jutes, Angles and Saxons. They came not just to conquer, but to settle and farm.. They were also, apparently, invited by the northern tribes to help them conquer those pesky British, but they failed to leave and instead took over, making themselves at home like the Romans did before them.

After the Anglo Saxons had made themselves comfortable for a few hundred years, the Vikings decided it was their turn next so they invaded and colonised from 793-1285. Unfortunately, they couldn't rest on their laurels (is that a Roman saying?) because in 1066 the Normans were wanting a piece of England, followed by the Danish. Then the French had a go until eventually I think Britain just accepted that we had an open door policy to whomever was travelling that way. We even welcomed the French aristocracy when they were fleeing from some angry French revolutionaries.

So somewhere along the way the culture of England got lost in the past, although there may be some clues with the Cornish people who managed to keep most of the invasions at bay, today seeing the English as invaders and not liking Cornwall being referred to as part of England.

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I may as well face it, I'm a mongrel, but it doesn't worry me because I believe that there is a lot of positive that has come from this history and much of it revolves around what has been retained and the open mindedness to other cultures and beliefs which has developed over time.

Now I know that nowhere has reached perfection when it comes to not discriminating, but I'm going to try and look at the positives for this.

What we have retained as culture over the years has likely been the best of what was introduced by those who settled in Britain. They say imitation is the greatest form of flattery, so if we admired the culture enough to take it on, is it a bad thing?

Growing up I could walk down the main street and there were take outs and eat ins from various cultures. You could guarantee Chinese, Indian and Italian even in small towns, then in the cities you could also experience Mexican, Thai and foods from various other cultures, depending on the migrant demographic. The only thing I rarely saw was sushi. Perhaps Britain doesn't appeal to the Japanese all that much, or it was just easier for them to go to America to experience western culture.

Our local post office was owned by a Pakistani family, who would always recognise and greet my father and myself by name and even recognised me years later, when I was in the area visiting my parents. I didn't even live in a particularly diverse area, but still saw so many different cultures and ethnicities around me.

In school I was pretty naive, so when our teacher read us a book about racism in 1960s US, it was the first I'd even heard of its existence. I recall being relieved that it was in the past and we no longer behaved that way towards those who look a bit different to ourselves. That shows just how rarely I came across racism. When I realised it did still exist, it confounded me. I could look around my classroom and among all of us “white” people, we had blondes, light brown hair, dark brown hair, black hair and redheads. Even our skin tones were different. How can you judge what is too different looking when we're obviously so mixed already? That melting pot Blue Mink sang about was already well under way, as far as I could see.

I believe that many Brits actually think that way. There will always be the occasional ones who don't, but I was proud to be a part of a mixed nation which welcomes other people and cultures. As we approached the turn of the century, attitudes did start to become more xenophobic as the Polish were accused of stealing our jobs and yes, islamophobia started to rear its head. Media was often at the centre of stirring this up.

I still believe that left to naturally evolve, not clinging onto one culture can lead to acceptance and respect of all cultures. When you grow up with diversity surrounding you as the norm, then as long as it's not commented on, you know no different.

The idea of cultural appropriation is fairly new and if I'm entirely honest, I don't really understand it. I acknowledge that this is likely down to my own lack of cultural identity. It's in my nature to share knowledge and experiences; it's how we used to survive. So when I first heard, here in Australia, that some aboriginal tribes don't like you to share their knowledge on native plants, it was something of a shock to me. Don't get me wrong, while I don't comprehend it, realise it's their prerogative.

Perhaps for those who don't like others appropriating what they see as their culture, it's akin to having their identity stolen. It's certainly happened often enough throughout history, when people have been stopped from speaking their own language or practising their traditions. For some this is still recent enough to be in living memory, for me it's way to far in the past to have any connection.

I respect the importance of culture and it's place in creating a feeling of belonging. I love learning about culture and believe it's important that it be kept. However, I also realise that we are continually evolving, so whether we like it or not, culture will change and some parts will be relegated to history. This isn't necessarily a bad thing and sometimes it can actually be a good thing. There are archaic traditions that I'm glad to see left in the past.

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I'd love to hear your take on culture. Do you have a long standing traditional culture? Have you had to fight to keep it alive? Do you have dual ancestry which brings you two different cultures and if so do they sometimes clash or do they blend well?



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This is a really timely post - and it's so nice seeing you back posting here too! 😍

Funnily enough, I just this morning was reading the irate ramblings of an Aussie friend determined to now become a Brit based on descent, cos he's so unhappy with the way Australia is shaping in opposition to much of the world.

What I've learned, it that NONE of us can go back, and there is no such thing as a pure culture. Cultural appropriation? urgh. It's an annoying idea IMHO. NO culture anywhere is pure, and no one owns it. The very nature of humans is that we move, intermarry, reproduce and muddy the gene pool.

As someone seeking to reclaim my Dutch citizenship (so I can be dual citizen, for financial reasons, since Australia discriminates against naturalized citizens) I have learned that the Dutch of my memory no longer exists. And there are more Thai, Indonesian, Moroccan and Turkish people living in my birthplace, Den Haag, now than white "originally Dutch" people like me. Which feels kinda nice.

I LIKE this new world - this mixed-mongrel-hybrid world - a whole lot better.

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Oh, wow, do you have to reclaim it? Is that because you were so young when you moved to Australia? It's disappointing to hear that about naturalized citizens. Regression comes to mind again.

As I wrote I was thinking that most of western Europe has a pretty similar history and likely a similar mixed gene pool. I'm not familiar enough with eastern Europe to guess at theirs, though. I gather more have Jewish ancestry there than we do, so that would be fascinating to learn more about.

I feel the same, we have always inter-married or inter-bred. It's what has made us who we are today as we spread across the world. Maybe in time we can let go of our superiority complexes and just live and let live. Although the are times when I wonder if our propensity to warring with one another is nature's way of keeping us in check as a population. We don't seem able to shake that side of human nature.

Hoping you can reclaim what you need. 💚 So much bureaucratic hoop jumping...

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When my parents migrated, dual citizenship was not possible. So they relinquished their Dutch nationality in favour of Australian. We automatically had it done for and to us, as minor children. That's changed now and since I didn't personally or voluntarily relinquish citizenship, Holland is willing to consider reinstating it. I have to pay bags of money and sit exams etc. I was umming and aaahing about it before Covid, but now it's a no-brainer. University for Ploi would be only 500 euro per semester if I could achieve it - as opposed to 2000 euro f I don't. Australia, on the other hand, won't consider Ploi as a university student, even though she's an Australian citizen. Cos she wasn't born there and is currently non resident. Urgh. I don't think most Australians understand that all citizenships are not equal.

I think the secret for humanity's evolution lays with the possibility of identifying with things other than the accident of our birth.

Hoop jumping? Luckily I'm pretty good at that.

Would you ever go back to UK? I ask cos I have talked with 2 friends this week (1 in Canada, 1 in Oz) both thinking that life in the UK offers them more now. Curious. 😊

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I had no idea that Holland didn't allow for dual, or was it Australia at the time.

I don't see us being any better off in the UK than we are here. They're all pushing in the same direction. How do they think life there will offer them more? Are they both British expats? If so, I'd have thought their family would have kept them updated on events. IMO it's been worse in many ways there than here. My sister has been utterly isolated for most of the last year and a half.

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Not sure about who it was back then - all I know is that game changed and now it's allowed.

One is a British citizen, one the child of Brit immigrants. they both feel that the UK is cheaper, easier and offers more opportunity, and less likely to be "stuck".

I'm sorry your sister is isolated. I have UK and Dutch friends travelling at the moment - several in Spain and one in Tanzania. 😊 I think economic circumstance vastly changes one's experience of a country. $8,400 right now to fly one way BKK to Perth? And there's a 3 month wait list? Errr.... pass.

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The UK is absolutely NOT cheaper than Australia. I don't know about Canada. My daughter visited family in England in 2018 and had to work to even pay for anything there, despite having saved a fair bit of spending money here. I'm comparing Adelaide (small town for Australia) to small town England, so somewhere like Melbourne or Sydney probably compares more to London, cosy of living wise. I also recall being surprised when we arrived at how much cheaper things were here, with the exception of some things that need importing, so that cost adds extra. Overall cost of living is definitely cheaper here.

Things are finally easing up in the UK now, so my sister seems happier. Still masks on everywhere, despite high vaccination rates, but at this point that's a small price to pay for most of them. Booster jabs and vaccine passports are the latest things there now if you want to keep your freedom.

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When I left the UK, around 8 years ago. I had already spent many decades in Asia. I can think of nothing to add with regards to culture from the UK.
I was living in Birmingham when I left last time.
West Bromwhich is like Jamaica.
Capehill and Smethwick are now mainly Pakistanis.
The main Birmingham road from the WBA fc ground into Birmingham is Indians.
Every part of Brum as I call it has sub cultures everywhere you look.
British culture is lost in time.
London, Leicester, Bradford all lost to alleged minorities.

When you have mayors from abroad, and even a crime minister from abroad, then look at the amount of corrupt polis named ticians from abroad, you understand why.


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There was an area in Birmingham where whites weren't appreciated before we left. That was about it, though.

I don't think this is what the original migrants who came to the UK planned. Many of them left their countries to escape the way of life there and didn't want extremists following. It only takes a few bad apples to tarnish the reputation of all those from the same nationality and end up compounding a situation as they are all turned on. Governments and media have only exacerbated the situation by making the whites resent them more.

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Hello, I liked your post, I was born in Venezuela and I have been in Mexico for many years and I clearly know how hard it is to keep our culture in another country and the struggle to keep that identity that we do not want to lose, so deeply rooted in our being.
I have had to defend it, because he who does not defend his roots has no soul or defined identity.
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The move to another country can certainly be hard, no matter what the reason.
Do you also embrace the Mexican culture while you try to keep your own alive?

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Interesting text, thank you. I like to add some things, I recently am dealing with anyways.

First question comes to mind: what do you include into culture?

When I was younger, I thought "culture" was a thing to consume. Like food, art, fashion and such. Later on, when I became a mother, it dawned on me that culture was way more than that.

I like to list the - for me - two most important things within a culture:

  1. how is birth integrated into this culture?
  2. how is death integrated into this culture?

How is everything in between treated by this culture what is called the "personal milestones" in live?

In my view, knowledge and experience are two inseparable elements. I can share knowledge, but if I cannot apply this knowledge in practice, it remains to theoretical.

So how do young people experience the transition from childhood to adulthood? How do they go through adolescence, become aware of their sexual role? Do they have the opportunity to observe adults making love who belong to their inner circle of relatives? Are they living witnesses of rituals that allow them to experience the mating of these adults they know, for example in the form of wedding ceremonies and other peculiarities in the pre contexts? How naturally and obviously do the adults deal with their own sexuality and permissiveness?

How do those people greet birth and death? Is it visible, touchable, made an experience? Is it hidden, covered with taboos? Is it robbed of a spiritual meaning, made functioning in a septic setting?

Culture for me also includes how meals are cooked, foods are processed, medicines invented and traditions handed over to the next generations. A tradition which cannot be handed over through living experiences, experienced not only by the few but by the many, can live strong and without all the conflicts we nowadays have.

It's the unspoken rule, the not written down laws of habit, the co-existence and spontaniously expressed and practiced additions to the own culture, where a mix of cultures can happen through very slow and not forced processes.

Like you very well described above. If people are not aware that something comes upon them, not forced but slowly but surely integrated they most likely will welcome some changes. If it comes through force, it will eventually will be adopted in one way or the other, that is also true. But probably it leaves the single human very much damaged in comparison.

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These questions also run through my own mind, which is why I think I feel so disconnected from a particular culture. What are our rituals and do we really have any specific ones any more? Our funerals are generally what the person in their life believed they should be, if they expressed it. Cremation or burial? Black mourning clothes or happier colours? Not all babies are christened these days, not all marriages have white dresses...

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Same here. I feel disconnected, too. Since my motherhood it started and never really went away. I wish for something which is obviously not within reach for me. Decisions were made way back in the past, even before my own life. While I can also say that I cannot miss something which I never experienced. So there were rituals in my childhood which gave the natural feeling to belong to a community. It was certainly not the best out of the best ones, but it was good enough. If you are interested, I blogged about rituals here.

Greetings :)

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