Keep it Simple to Avoid Becoming a Product Junkie

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"Loving and accepting yourself the way you are, is my number one minimalist tip on caring for, and maintaining your hair without becoming a product junkie."


The mindset, personal values, and the importance one places on self-care determine the approach one takes to personal grooming, and what fulfillment one gets from looking after themselves.

Personal Grooming is of paramount importance because I see it as a form of self-love and respect for myself and others.

My mindset for maintaining my natural 'fro as seen in the photo above is to nurture my hair to make it manageable and healthy while retaining its most natural form, with minimal products that are essential.

I've always been told that your hair is your crowning glory, but I believe a healthy and positive mind; confidence, and acceptance, are what makes one beautiful.

In this modern society, people rely on external affirmations to feel good about themselves. We are bombarded by images of unrealistic perfection, which leave many suffering from comparison syndrome and inferiority complexes, which often result in low self-esteem, depression, and irresponsible spending.


Refrain from Hair Envy

Buying hair products based on what is promised on labels, to achieve a particular look most times stems from hair envy; Whether it's the curl pattern and look of that gorgeous girl we saw as we turned the pages of a magazine, or that curly beauty with bouncy ringlets who gets thousands of likes on Instagram or that silky smooth long flowing hair of Miss Universe, without appreciating and understanding your own hair.

💡The hair that grows from the scalp is unique to each person. The texture, volume, or curl pattern is determined by genetics and other factors such as one's ethnic background. Therefore, it is very unlikely that any product on the market is going to change the texture of your natural hair unless chemically altered, and possibly a miracle.

My appreciation and an understanding of the nature of my wayward hair made me accept that my hair defies gravity. I learned to look for products that were made with ingredients that work for my natural structure, instead of against it. This saved me time and effort, and I no longer had feelings of despair in looking after my hair.


Minimalist Hair Products For Daily, Weekly, and Monthy Care

Knowing my hair type and purchasing products specially formulated for my hair is essential.

I stick to products that are made of natural ingredients. I also make my organic products from herbal infusions and some natural kinds of butter.

Keeping it simple, and smart in a minimalist way, proved to be the most effective approach for my headstrong hair.

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Wash 'n' Go?!
Yeah, and a li'l bit mo'

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A microfibre towel or a t-shirt is a great idea for removing excess water before air-drying the hair.


Simplifying the Steps and Needs of the Hair is the first thing needed to identify the relevant products needed.

I use the Curly Girl Method #CGM
  1. Cleansing
  2. Deep Conditioning/treatment
  3. Detangling
  4. Moisturising / Sun Protection/Leave-in Conditioner
  5. Sealant

  • Cleansing
    • A mild shampoo and conditioner that are both sulfate-free, cleanse, and help to retain the natural moisture of the strands.

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Taking care of the initial step is important.
I particularly like this brand and I know I will use the product to the last drop without the need to switch to another brand.


  • Hair Treatment
    • Applying a hair treatment is essential for strengthening the hair and adding nourishment to the strands.
    • This also helps to protect and maintain a healthy scalp which is important to avoid buying extra products or expensive trips to the salon.

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I am currently using this brand, as its main ingredients avocado and aloe vera, are natural moisturising emollients. However, following the instructions provided on the product, is more important and sometimes more beneficial than going to a salon.
This is because you might be paying for an expensive treatment, based on what the hairdresser displays, but unscrupulous persons sometimes refill treatments with cheaper products and you might not be any wiser.
#keepitsimpleandsmart


  • Detangler / Sealant / Leave-in Conditioner (a little bit of Chemistry: Liquid, Oil, Cream, #LOC method)

  • I use these clips on the left to partition my hair into manageable sections.
  • I apply a liquid detangler to soften and balance the pH of my hair.
  • A natural cold-pressed organic oil is applied to the ends of my hair to seal in the moisture.
  • A leave-in cream to protect and moisturise the hair from harsh natural elements such as the sun, extreme cold, or extremely hot weather.

Two Key Stages for all hair types are:


  1. The Leave-in Conditioner. These come in a more liquid state, or creamier thick state that's made especially for highly textured hair like mine.
  2. Deep Conditioner / Treatment: for penetrating all the layers of the hair for protein or moisture.

Takeaway tips for a Minimalist to avoid becoming a Product Junkie:

  • Loving and accepting yourself as an individual.
  • Self-care from the inside out; meaning paying close attention to the foods we eat and the right vitamins and minerals that our bodies need.
  • Never falling prey to false advertising.
  • Staying hydrated. Dehydration causes brittle hair and nails.
  • Learning to make your own products from plants in your garden and ingredients in your kitchen. Here I share a link to my DIY Hair Spritz for Detangling. One of my absolute favourites. This adds sheen and strengthens and protects the hair.
Remember, there is nothing such as good hair or bad hair, just differences that should be embraced. Learning to love and feel beautiful just the way you are, is powerful beyond measure.

#UnapologeticMe #CottonHair

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Being a fro sister myself I totally understand what you said. I tried a lot of things on my hair before discovering that less is more. Sticking to doing only the basic important things and getting trims when necessary has made me retain the health and length of my hair. Finger detangling before going in with a wide toothed comb or tangle teaser has been a life saver. I think you should try it if you haven't already.

Meeting another natural hair enthusiast on hive feels really nice.

May your fro grow and your skin glow 🥰. Thanks for sharing!!:)

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Hello @kamarah,
Thanks for your sweet comment.
I struggled at the start of my journey and wasted a lot of money simply down to ignorance. At the time, wearing natural hair was not trendy and there were no tutorials like there are today. Luckily while in the Netherlands, a salon that catered to Afro Hair (called No Jokes) ... an appropriate shop name because handling my hair then was no jokes. The positive was that they did product knowledge and explained why it was necessary for the structure of our hair. The downside was that the products they had were EXPENSIVE! There was Blended Beauty - a pioneer brand for Afro hair textures. They were the only ones on the market. I remember my Dutch University Deen overhearing a conversation, and he said "that's a gap to be filled in the market." He was so right. Cosmetics Companies and the natural hair industry evolved and more affordable products became available.

Do you mean like a shampoo brush?

Yes, it's very nice to know that you can relate to all of this 😍

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At the time, wearing natural hair was not trendy and there were no tutorials like there are today.

Luckily for me I went natural during this time and it wasn't just because it was trendy. The tutorials helped a lot but they can be confusing too because there are a lot of techniques and products and you still have to try a bunch of stuff before you discover what totally works for you.

Luckily while in the Netherlands, a salon that catered to Afro Hair (called No Jokes) ... an appropriate shop name because handling my hair then was no jokes.

😂 Whoever named it has a good sense of humour.

The positive was that they did product knowledge and explained why it was necessary for the structure of our hair. The downside was that the products they had were EXPENSIVE! There was Blended Beauty - a pioneer brand for Afro hair textures.

This is good,not every salon has such knowledge. The expensive part is no surprise though.

Yes, it's very nice to know that you can relate to all of this 😍

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Do you mean like a shampoo brush?

Umm no? Just your fingers. You can check for tutorials on finger detangling if you can't really picture what I'm saying, those will help :)

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No the tangle teaser? Is that like an afro pick?

How is it in your culture? Is wearing your hair natural frowned upon in companies?

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No the tangle teaser? Is that like an afro pick?

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This is what mine looks like but it comes in different designs, the only thing that's the same in all is the bristle size and arrangement. I think it was designed specifically for really small and knotted tangles and it works for me.

How is it in your culture? Is wearing your hair natural frowned upon in companies?

No, luckily for me it isn't. Here in Nigeria most people have my kinda texture or similar textures. But having natural hair isn't an excuse to look unkempt so it isn't exactly frowned upon but keeping it unkempt is.
I carry my hair in twists most of the time and I've never had an issue with anyone because of how my hair is.

Is it frowned upon in yours?

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It is in the professional climate. For example, working in tourist resorts, they would prefer if you straightened your hair because they say it does not look good, and we should look polished for tourists. Yet, it's the opposite reaction: Tourists are always surprised to see all the chemically straightened hairstyles and could never understand why.
It's more in fashion now, but still not accepted.
Here in the UK, British people do expect and accept the natural form:)

I have heard about those brushes, next time I'm in a town, I'll get one. Thanks for that.
Your hair looks nice in the profile pic:)

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The people at the tourist resorts and places like that should know better. I hope their views on natural hair changes soon.

It's great that your natural hair is accepted where you are.

It was no problem at all🙂. Thanks for the compliment 🥰

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Your hair is beautiful!
I keep it simple with my hair too, though I'm on the other end of the hair spectrum: I have very fine hair, like wispy baby hair, but it goes halfway down my back. When people have only seen me with it up, and then they see me take it down, they always comment that they didn't realize I had so much hair, LOL.
I used to find this one conditioner that was the only one that did miracles for my hair, but it was discontinued. :( My hair drank it up like a sponge. I did the no 'poo method for a few years and that worked really well for me actually, but I got tired of mixing up two bottles pretty much every shower. I should probably go back to that, though, my hair was happy with it.

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Thank you. I have made every mistake imaginable when it comes to my hair, and I am happy I came to the realisation that sticking to these basics is all I need.
My hair is super fine too, and it feels like a cotton bud😅
How you see it in the last photo is how my mum would let me wear it as a little girl. It was normal for girls to wear their hair in braids, so I hated it then and my sisters used to laugh...however, I now understand why my mother did it then. My hair is stubborn with a mind of it's own. My moum said that my hair is a representative of me:)
I tried that poo method too, but sometimes I just forget.
A Filipina hairdresser gave me a tip to put the deep conditioner or treatment in my hair at night and wash it out in the morning without shampoo. It actually works very well and strengthens my hair.
Do you avoid using conditioner since you have fine hair?

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No, I need lots of conditioner or else I literally have static electricity in my hair, lol. Sometimes I get sparks when I brush it, and it defies gravity too. But the sparks are less now that I've switched to wood or bamboo combs and brushes; plastic definitely makes that worse!
The issue is that most conditioners are not heavy enough; that one that worked well was specifically marketed "for fine hair" from Garnier Fructis and I was putting whole handfuls in my hair at a time, lol.
Currently my best method is I have a 2-in-1 for shampoo AND regular conditioner after; I keep a plain shampoo as well to use every once in a while because it does eventually weigh it down. My leave-in, when I'm static-y, is diluted aloe gel.

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I have been using the Garnier too because I can get it in all the shops, but when I go back to Leicester City, I stock up on my favorite ones.

Sometimes I get sparks when I brush it, and it defies gravity too. But the sparks are less now that I've switched to wood or bamboo combs and brushes; plastic definitely makes that worse!

I didn't know that was possible. It's amazing the things our bodies can do. We forget sometimes that we are made up of energy and that our hair is alive...so to speak.

Diluted Aloe gel is amazing too:)

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This is the INCI or Ingredients List for the Herbal Essence product;
Product Specification
Aqua, Cetyl Alcohol, Stearamidopropyl Dimethylamine, Stearyl Alcohol, Bis-Aminopropyl Dimethicone, Glutamic Acid, , Parfum, Benzyl Alcohol, Citric Acid, Disodium EDTA, Histidine, Limonene, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Butylene Glycol, Persea Grastissima Oil, Alcohol Denat., Ecklonia Radiata Extract

According to Aromapath Julien Kaibeck who started the movement Slow Cosmétique the 1st 5 ingredients of this list makes up around 75% of the product.
The avacado oil is almost the last ingredient on the list as well as the aloé vera juice so almost inexistant in the product. But I do see Bis-Aminopropyl Dimethicone which is a silicone ingredient😣 And EDTA which is toxic for the environment. Julien would call this greenwashing. A keep it simple solution for your beautiful hair would be an aftershampoo made of 1/2 avacado crushed and mixed with an egg yolk and a half a natural yoghurt. Then follow with an organic apple cider vinaigre rinse and a spritz of flaxseed gel (although I love your recipe for Hair Spritz💞)
https://lissage--cheveux-fr.translate.goog/gel-graine-de-lin-cheveux-bien-lisses/?_x_tr_sl=auto&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=fr
This is a translated article on conservators by Julien.
https://www-lessentieldejulien-com.translate.goog/2021/04/tout-sur-les-conservateurs-cosmetiques/?_x_tr_sl=auto&_x_tr_tl=en&_x_tr_hl=fr
In any case I think your hair is beautiful and only wish to warn you about possibly toxic or greenwashing ingredients 🙏💞

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I always liked how you style your hair and care for them. You did mention using hair products, when you were living in the Philippines, did you import them or you were using available brands in the country? Thank you for sharing your hair care routine and breaking down the steps. Coconut is awesome for the hair. Your post inspired me to pamper the strands from time to time.

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