Acting smart so that he doesn't think I'm sending him: WEEK 167

I love all the topics of this week 167. I chose one that is my day to day, because if I have to manage to get my husband to help me with the housework, without feeling that I am sending him, and also that in the time that he says, it is really difficult this situation, but thank God I have been able to handle it, and if my husband helps me a lot at home, but being very smart.

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My husband is a person with a big heart, but he has a strong personality, besides he feels like I am the one with the ideas at home, that everything is done as I say and as I want, and there is one of the great details, where I am full of patience and in a very loving way I ask for his help or collaboration for the housework, the bad thing friends that as it is his time he does not do it immediately when I tell him to, but it is when he says so and I need help immediately.

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What I have learned is to fill myself with patience and breathe, and well, even if he has not done the housework, I remember him very lovingly, my life remembers that the air conditioner is dirty for example, and he says if you relax I already do it, and he does not give his arm to twist because he feels that even if he wants to do it if he does he feels that I am sending him but how difficult friends, well what I do is to occupy myself in other things until he wants to do it.

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Sometimes, even if he doesn't do the homework, I do it and he feels like he has to do it and especially if it's hard work like moving heavy objects, he goes and helps me, I'm very self-sufficient like my attitude, what I want to tell him is that if he doesn't help me I can do it, before I would get very upset, and I would repeat a thousand times, love you did such a thing, and he wouldn't relax, there's God sometimes I would get desperate, and he would get even more upset, so I have learned to do it in his time, he will see, and if by chance that I told him to help me to hinder some activity that we will do as a family, for example change the gas cylinder for cooking, I tell my daughter that the food is not ready yet, that there is no gas but I tell him loudly so that he listens, and he comes quickly and changes it because he has blocked an activity because of his pride.

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Another way to put intelligent pressure on him is to make him feel that if he had the strength or knowledge to do the task he would not ask for help.

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Well, my friends, we have to be very careful so that our partners help us and do not believe that we are bossing him around.

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But I can not complain, he helps me, the joke is not to make him feel that it is for the task, or that I always have the onociativa, but how do I do if women are aware of everything that fails or is missing at home, and we will not stop doing it just because our husbands forget, not because it turns out that we affect the whole family.

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All content is authored by me.
Pictures taken with my Redmi 11 Note Pro
Separator and image edited in Canva
Translated with Deepl

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