[ESP/ENG] Mi vida después de ti/ My life after you

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Aprendí con todo esto, a realizar unas actividades apreciables, que quiero compartir, ya que ayudan a superar las dificultades de la vida.

Después de llorar por varias noches, pelear con mi mente, querer arrancar mi corazón, hacerme mil preguntas tontas sin respuestas, y caer en la realidad de que después de decirme muchas palabras hermosas, decidiste dejarme tan cruelmente, después de tantas cosas, y cuando ni lo aceptaba, decidí seguir mi vida sin ti, porque deseo vivir.

Cambie mi mundo para unirme al tuyo, finalmente estar juntos solo tú y yo, hacer planes en base a ti, pero en poco tiempo solo te fuiste, eso me ha sido tan difícil superar. Lo importante es aceptar, y volver a retomar mi vida siendo solo yo y el mundo. Una vez entregado el corazón nada vuelve a ser como antes.

De a momentos se me vienen momentos y palabras que me hacían sentir que volaba, que era tan irreal, que vivía en una película de amor, donde los ojos brillaban y, con solo mirarlos podías captar todo ese amor tan puro que ni cabía en el corazón, pero caigo en la realidad nuevamente, porque ya no estas, al final tu amor no era el mismo que yo sentía hacia a ti, y aunque a veces siento que me encuentro en un agujero y caigo en la oscuridad, decido seguir adelante, porque ante todo yo soy más importante de lo que tú me demostraste, de lo que tú me hacías sentir y me decías, ahora me toca decírmelo a mí misma, “Eres lo mejor del mundo y vales más de lo que piensas”.

Pero aquí estoy, navegando en un mar con la marea alta y miles de dificultades contra la cual luchar, pero todo lo podemos lograr, y aunque piense en ti, te digo hoy, que después de todo eso que viví, aprendí que lo mejor es llorar, no importa tocar fondo, pero vuelve a levantarte, porque tú eres lo más importante para ti misma.

A veces las cosas no son como quisiéramos, como lo teníamos planeado, no todo sale a la perfección, pero veras que hay muchas más cosas que no hubieras aprendido, tal vez, si siguieras con la misma persona, en un mundo de probabilidades, debes mirar más allá y buscar salir del hoyo que uno mismo se cavó, y seguir tu propia vida, seguir aprendiendo, seguir creciendo, porque la vida sigue.

Aprendí con todo esto, a realizar unas actividades apreciables, que quiero compartir, ya que ayudan a superar las dificultades de la vida, nos saca de momentos no agradables que estemos pasando, puedes intentar realizar si mal te sientes e incluso tomar como rutina diaria:

  • Dar gracias por un nuevo día, decir en voz alta
  • Meditar 30 minutos
  • Hacer ejercicio, aunque sea 30 minutos, puede ser solo caminar
  • Bailar, puede ser realizar una bailoterapia, buscar un video en youtube
  • Leer un libro, novela
  • Cantar una canción
  • Escribir en un diario, blog
  • Dibujar
  • Aprender un nuevo idioma, también puedes por youtube
  • Aprender a tocar un instrumento musical

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Otra página en la que apoyarte es Youtube, allí puedes encontrar tooooodo lo que quieras, para aprender, leer, escuchar, ver, saber y es gratis. Aprovecha una gran herramienta.

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I learned with all this, to do some appreciable activities, which I want to share, as they help to overcome the difficulties of life.

After crying for several nights, fighting with my mind, wanting to tear out my heart, asking myself a thousand silly questions without answers, and falling into the reality that after telling me many beautiful words, you decided to leave me so cruelly, after so many things, and when I didn't even accept it, I decided to continue my life without you, because I want to live.

I changed my world to join yours, to finally be together only you and me, to make plans based on you, but in a short time you just left, that has been so hard for me to overcome. The important thing is to accept, and to resume my life being just me and the world. Once the heart has been given up, nothing goes back to the way it was before.

From time to time moments and words come to me that made me feel that I was flying, that it was so unreal, that I was living in a love movie, where the eyes were shining and, just by looking at them you could capture all that love so pure that it didn't fit in your heart, but I fall into reality again, because you are no longer there, at the end your love was not the same that I felt towards you, and even though sometimes I feel like I'm in a hole and I fall into darkness, I decide to go on, because above all I am more important than what you showed me, than what you made me feel and told me, now I have to tell myself, "You are the best in the world and you are worth more than you think".

But here I am, sailing in a sea with a high tide and thousands of difficulties to fight against, but we can achieve everything, and although I think of you, I tell you today, that after all that I lived, I learned that the best thing is to cry, no matter if you hit bottom, but get up again, because you are the most important thing for yourself.

Sometimes things are not as we would like, as we had planned, not everything goes perfectly, but you will see that there are many more things that you would not have learned, perhaps, if you were still with the same person, in a world of probabilities, you must look beyond and try to get out of the hole that you dug for yourself, and follow your own life, keep learning, keep growing, because life goes on.

I learned with all this, to do some appreciable activities, that I want to share, because they help to overcome the difficulties of life, it takes us out of unpleasant moments that we are going through, you can try to do if you feel bad and even take as a daily routine:

  • Give thanks for a new day, say it out loud.
  • Meditate for 30 minutes
  • Exercise, even if it is only 30 minutes, it can be just walking
  • Dancing, you can do a dance therapy, look for a video on youtube.
  • Read a book, novel
  • Singing a song
  • Writing in a diary, blog
  • Drawing
  • Learn a new language, you can also learn a new language through youtube
  • Learn to play a musical instrument

Note: Hive is an excellent site to distract, learn, share, so, just by being here, you will be doing several things from the list. Fall in love with Hive Blog, you won't be disappointed hehe.

Another page to rely on is Youtube, there you can find everything you want, to learn, read, listen, watch, know and it's free. Take advantage of a great tool.

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Gracias por leer mi publicación. La foto es de mi propiedad tomada por un Motorola Nexus./ Thank you for reading my post. The photo is my property taken by a Motorola Nexus.

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Hemosa reflexiones y excelentes tips para superar momentos de tristeza y desilusión por las que todos pasamos aunque sea una vez en la vida. Abrazos

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