Don't Judge Me! [Week136]

I hate it when people stereotype me...
Most times, we judge people based On what hear from others, or what we see from afar without having a clear view of it, and in the end, it might not be true.

I recall when I was in my year in the university, I was talked with a friend for hours, we talked about a lot of things, it was indeed a long talk, while we are still talking, he said and I quote " I don't know you can talk like this, someone told me you're proud, and you don't talk to people" I smiled, but deep down, I wasn't happy with the statement, but I too tried to make him understand me that I'm not being proud, Most times I keep quiet when I don have any meaningful to say. But when I have things to say, trust me, I will talk to you until you're tired..lol. I'm glad I was able to explain myself. Again, I can be an introvert and sometimes an extrovert, that's the two natures of me

I hate it when people gossip about others.
This is one of the things I hate with a passion, I can decide not to associate with the kind of people/person because of the act. No one is perfect, we are all trying to Walk toward perfection. When we see things that are not going on well with our neighbors, we should try to call them and make the necessary correction, rather than talking about them in a bad way when they are not there. This act of gossip made me break up with a friend, I never wanted it to end that way, but I can't cope with a gossiper. Even when I was younger, I was in basic 5 then, I get into a fight for the first time with my colleagues because of gossip, thank God a teacher was around to make peace with us in the process. I like it when you tell people their mistakes, rather than gossiping about them.

I also hate it when people promise me without attempting to fulfill it.
Most times when I talk about doing something, I hardly make promises, I will rather tell you " I will try " which might be 50/50 because tomorrow is unpredictable, But when I mention the word "I promise" I'll make sure I try my best to achieve it if, not all. When Promises are not kept, one might lose trust in you. I hate it when someone promises me and end up doing nothing because I will I feel like I was taken for granted, It's better not to promise when we are not 100% sure of fulfilling it.

Don't laugh when you read this, but I have to say this, some people are also like that...
I hate it when someone asks " tell me more about yourself". The Statement always turn me off during a chat, either online or offline, and it may take me more than 30 minutes to reply. Yeah, I'm gonna talk about my name, my education and if I'm still in a good mood I can talk about little things about me, but when you ask for me ...oh my goodness !! That's the end of my chat.. hehehe 😂. Talking about myself is one of the hardest things for me to do, seems like you're giving me an exam, then my head began to boot to provide an answer, Sometimes, I try to adapt to it, but I can't. However, it's not bad thing to ask, but to me, it turns me off.

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