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Happy and blessed new day friends, this week the questions are somewhat complicated to answer although at the same time I like it because it is an interactive way of getting to know each other, I hope on this beautiful day you are super well full of good health and energy... I like belonging to this community more every day, it was not by chance that I found it, I was destined to see it, I invite @migda to participate, I am sure that he will love this opportunity as much as I do get to know each other creating ties and beautiful friendships.

📌What was the most devastating event of your life? Express your feelings and how you coped?

Creo que eo varia en el tiempo, a los 11 años te puedo decir que el evento mas devastador de mi vida fue la muerte de mi Abuela, casi vivía con ella, me atendía todo el día mientras mi mama estaba trabajando, al pasar el tiempo aunque sigue doliendo comprendo que son las bases naturales de la vida. A los 25 Años los mas devastador fue perder a mi esposo, sentirme sola en otro estado con 2 niños pequeños, nunca es fácil cerrar ciclos cuando no sabes las respuestas o cuando aun al pasar el tiempo no comprendes las situaciones que suscitaron a esas acciones, recuerdo un 17 de Diciembre desperté a las 8 am y mi habitación estaba completamente vacía, tenia un fuerte dolor de cabeza y estaba totalmente sola, sin pertenencias, dinero, joyas, NADA, Mi esposo luego de 9 años de matrimonio ya no estaba, no había nada... Eso ya paso para resumir EL nos abandono, se llevo dinero y todo lo que encontró te preguntaras porque?¡? Pues yo también tenia la familia perfecta el perro, la casa, el carro y amor han pasado 12 años desde ese 17 de Diciembre y aun no se de el, su papa murió y aun no lo encuentran... 3 años después de esto me llego el acta de Divorcio y una citación para ir a firmarlo ya estaba firmado por el, mi hija tenia tan solo 9 meses de haber nacido hoy tiene 12 años, cómo lo afrontó? Llorando, primero sentí miedo, si era un secuestro, si le paso algo, junto a su familia visitamos hospitales, morgues y demás llega un momento al pasar los años que simplemente eso tan devastador ya no duele, ya no te afecta, pero si te cambia, tome todo ese dolor y luche, crecí me levante, aprendí que aunque es difícil si puedo! Entendí que a veces a las personas buenas también le pasan cosas malas, y comprendí que eso no me hace victima, que eso no me hace mártir TODO LO CONTRARIO, me enseño a dar mas de mi, a ser valiente, humilde y alegre. Ah sobre todo luchar por mis hijos para ser mujer y hombre de bien, basados en el amor y el respeto, me dio ese eslabón que me faltaba para darme cuenta que Si Puedo!

I think it varies over time, at the age of 11 I can tell you that the most devastating event of my life was the death of my Grandmother, I almost lived with her, she took care of me all day While my mom was working, as time went by, although it still hurts, I understand that they are the natural foundations of life. At 25 years old, the most devastating thing was losing my husband, feeling alone in another state with 2 small children, it is never easy to close cycles when you don't know the answers or even when time goes by you don't understand the situations that gave rise to those actions, I remember one December 17 I woke up at 8 am and my room was completely empty, I had a bad headache and I was totally alone, without belongings, money, jewelry, NOTHING, My husband after 9 years of marriage was gone, no there was nothing... That already happened to summarize HE abandoned us, he took money and everything he found you will wonder why?!? Well, I also had the perfect family, the dog, the house, the car and love, 12 years have passed since that December 17th and I still don't know about him, his father died and they still haven't found him... 3 years after this I The divorce certificate arrived and a summons to go and sign it was already signed by him, my daughter was only 9 months old, today she is 12 years old, how did she face it? Crying, first I felt fear, if it was a kidnapping, if something happened to him, together with his family we visited hospitals, morgues and others, there comes a time as the years go by when simply that devastating thing no longer hurts, it no longer affects you, but if change, take all that pain and fight, I grew up, I learned that although it is difficult if I can! I understood that sometimes bad things also happen to good people, and I understood that this does not make me a victim, that this does not make me a martyr. Quite the contrary, it taught me to give more of myself, to be brave, humble and joyful. Oh, above all, fighting for my children to be a good woman and man, based on love and respect, gave me that missing link to realize that Yes I can!

📌 Explique la experiencia más beneficiosa que haya encontrado produciendo resultados que lo satisfagan a usted o a su estilo de vida. Cuéntanos qué fue y cómo te afectó.

📌 Explain the most beneficial experience you have found producing results that satisfy you or your lifestyle. Tell us what it was and how it affected you.

Ya hablamos de lo devastador, a raíz de esa horrible experiencia mi estilo de vida cambio, y fue como ese rayo de luz que me dijo EPA tu puedes, me dedique tanto a surgir que hasta abrí mi propia tienda de accesorios, era espectacular amaba cada detalle, estaba haciendo lo que me gusta con tanta pasión que solo seguía creciendo y mis hijos estaban felices! Lamentablemente con la protestas del 2017 sufrí tantas perdidas que cerré el local aunque nunca eh dejado de crear los accesorios que tanto amo

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We already talked about the devastating, as a result of that horrible experience my lifestyle changed, and it was like that ray of light that EPA told me you can, I dedicated myself so much to emerge that I even opened my own accessories store, it was spectacular I loved every detail, I was doing what I like with so much passion that I just kept growing and my children were happy! Unfortunately, with the 2017 protests, I suffered so many losses that I closed the store, although I have never stopped creating the accessories that I love so much

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Mi trabajo es mi pasión y cuando tu trabajo es tu pasión nada es imposible / My work is my passion and when your work is your passion nothing is impossible