[ESP - ENG] Is it better to be alone? Maybe. [Ladies of Hive Community Contest #56]
ESPAÑOL
¡Hola hola amores de Hive! Es un placer unirme nuevamente a un concurso de la comunidad de mujeres, aunque como siempre nos dan a elegir responder alguna de las dos preguntas, decidí nuevamente responder ambas ¡Aquí vamos!
1. Si estás de mal humor, ¿prefieres que te dejen solo o que alguien te anime?
Voy a admitir que de mal humor soy de las peores personas, cuando algo le molesta o me incómoda me cierro y no me gusta que me hablen, que me intenten animar o algo parecido.
Cuando estoy de mal humor, o molesta por alguna situación solía ser ofensiva, no media mis palabras y solo dejaba que la molestia hablara sin importarme si lastimaba a alguien, es por eso que nunca me gustó que me consolaran, o que alguien me hablara mientras estaba de esta manera, por eso siempre me alejaba y dejaba que se me pasará todo.
Al pasar los años fui canalizando esto y cambiando mis actitudes, no siendo tan agresiva y midiendo mis palabras y las situaciones que me rodean, así que actualmente cuando algo me molesta sigo alejándome, pero esta vez para analizar cómo me siento, que es lo que me molesta y como tratar con ello, o como enfocarme en buscar una solución sin ser mala o desagradable, me gusta que después de analizar todo, decir que es lo que me molesta y solucionar los problemas de manera correcta, y corregir lo que hemos hecho mal.
ENGLISH
Hello hello Hive lovers! It's a pleasure to join again a quiz from the women's community, although as they always give us to choose to answer one of the two questions, I decided again to answer both Here we go!
1. If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?
I will admit that in a bad mood I am one of the worst people, when something bothers me or makes me uncomfortable I shut down and I don't like to be talked to, tried to be encouraged or anything like that.
When I'm in a bad mood, or upset about some situation I used to be offensive, I didn't mediate my words and just let the annoyance speak without caring if it hurt someone, that's why I never liked to be consoled, or someone talking to me while I was this way, that's why I always walked away and let it all pass.
As the years went by I was channeling this and changing my attitudes, not being so aggressive and measuring my words and the situations that surround me, so currently when something bothers me I keep walking away, but this time to analyze how I feel, what bothers me and how to deal with it, or how to focus on finding a solution without being mean or nasty, I like that after analyzing everything, to say what bothers me and solve the problems in the right way, and correct what we have done wrong.
2. ¿Alguna vez recuperarías a alguien que hizo trampa?
Creo que esto es decisión de cada persona, pero realmente no creo que aceptaría de nuevo a alguien que no me respeto lo suficiente como para hacer algo así, independientemente si sea una pareja sentimental, o una amistad, todo esto requiere confianza, si traicionas eso ¿Cómo esperas que alguien crea en ti?
Si perdonaría a alguien que haya hecho algo así para poder seguir adelante y olvidar este tipo de situaciones, pero no creo que lo aceptará nuevamente en mi vida, una vez que alguien te traiciona de esta manera imagino que sería un constante ¿Me está diciendo la verdad? ¿Dónde está? ¿Realmente me quiere? ¿Y si lo hace de nuevo? Creo que eso es algo que constantemente te perseguirá y no te dejaría vivir en paz y siempre estaría con insertidumbre e inseguridades, y antes de vivir cada día así prefiero estar sola, sola pero con paz mental, sin miedos, sin tormentos o malos ratos.
2. Would you ever take back someone who cheated?
I think this is each person's decision, but I really don't think I would take back someone who doesn't respect me enough to do something like that, regardless if it's a romantic partner, or a friendship, this all requires trust, if you betray that how do you expect someone to believe in you?
Yes I would forgive someone who has done something like this in order to move on and forget this kind of situations, but I don't think I would accept it again in my life, once someone betrays you in this way I imagine it would be a constant, is he telling me the truth, where is he, does he really love me, and if he does it again, what if he does it again? I think that is something that will constantly haunt you and would not let you live in peace and would always be with uncertainty and insecurities, and before living every day like that I prefer to be alone, alone but with peace of mind, without fears, without torments or bad times.
Muchas gracias por leer mi post! Realmente amo este tipo de concursos y es un placer para mí participar, así que fue totalmente increíble escribir sobre esto ¡Nos leemos pronto! XOXO.
Thank you so much for reading my post! I really love this kind of contests and it's a pleasure for me to participate, so it was totally awesome to write about this See you soon! XOXO.
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I guess once the trust is broken, it is hard t get it back.
Thanks for sharing, @mariangeltarg.
Good luck with the contest.
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