La separación y los hijos [ESP-ENG]
One of the most beautiful stages of life for a person is undoubtedly when you meet that special person and feel that he or she will be by your side for life, marriage, but unfortunately in many cases one of the two does not take those vows seriously and end the relationship by committing infidelity or reasons that many believe valid as lack of communication, or say to each other, love is over. But in this situation, how to explain to the children so that they understand and not cause a trauma that will mark them in their lives.
Something that should always be taken into account is that the separation is with the spouse, not with the children, and in view of this, the parent should not leave this permanent contact with them, and if it is a question of communicating what is happening, do not give them long to the matter, since at this point within the family circle the children perceive in the great majority of the cases this heavy atmosphere of bad treatment between their parents.
Since in most cases it is the parent who stops living with their children under the same roof, they should not hesitate to express to their children that in this situation they will be there with them, that they will not be alone, that they will count on their help when they need it, but most importantly, they should put into practice all their words, since for the children it is really a very painful situation to see that their parents will no longer be together, causing a pattern, not in all cases, that they will imitate.
It is true that in those moments there are no words that will make a child happy to see that one of their parents will no longer be at home, but you should make it clear to them and not take it for granted that they know it, by expressing that you love them and never underestimate that they need to know that you take them into account when talking to them.
El separador fue hecho por mí en PowerPoint a partir de una imagen de Pixabay Cortesía jhonatan_perez
The separator was made by me in PowerPoint from an image from Pixabay Courtesy jhonatan_perez
Banner elaborado por mi en PowerPoint 1, 2. 3, 4.
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