La paciencia ha sido esencial para ser un buen padre [ESP-ENG]
Hello my dear community of @Motherhood, a pleasure to be here again to share our experiences as parents where I wish you to be super well as always next to your loved ones. Today I want to share with you something that as parents we must cultivate on a large scale such as patience. And yes, as human beings, many of us do not come with this gift so necessary to lead a peaceful life and most importantly to be realistic when relating to our loved ones, as in the case of our children.
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Something that I have learned in these wonderful years that I have been a parent, is that each child is different and no matter how much we look for help, in books that talk about the subject, we will surely have something new to tell, to write a new one. And I say this because patience is key for us to get along well with them, but being honest is something that for many is not given to us immediately, due to many factors involved in our upbringing, because we have to be clear that children are a sponge absorbing everything, but we would like them to take only the good, but unfortunately it is not so tends to take the bad is most cases and here I do not want to generalize.
And as a father, I want my children to take the good things that I can express to them through our daily talks, where naturally as a father concerned about their welfare, I must open my ears to know what they like or worry about and thus help them to see things from a better point of view, of course, with this I must be very careful because I never want my children to see me as someone who says have this or that, because this would make them not talk to me and this would make me fail as a father in some way.
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As I said at the beginning, patience is not something not innate in me, but I must always keep it in mind in my life and more in dealing with my children, since they will not act in most cases as we have discussed, and this as a parent I could become irritated, but I have in mind that if I do not keep calm it will have a negative effect on my children, and this has happened to me when on certain occasions talking with Alexander or Marialex, they express situations they have experienced in which they have not acted as "I" expected.
And he emphasized the I, because it is the main cause of us losing patience with them by doing things that we do not like, but in reality are not so serious to upset us, on the contrary, showing them patience has made me see what has happened to them and why they acted that way to help them improve future situations, and being honest it is not easy for a parent to keep calm, that is why we must take a deep breath and give ourselves a few minutes to act wisely.
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For a parent it could be easy to lose patience when we see that our children are not as tidy as we want them to be, procrastinating to name a few, but keeping patience in these things has helped me to give them a good example as well as to understand that each one of our children is different and it will take time to assimilate things to become mature when making decisions in their lives. For that reason something that has helped me improve as a parent is to show patience to my children, and at times a lot of it, but in doing so I know that it will help my relationship with them to be better every day.
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