La paciencia ha sido esencial para ser un buen padre [ESP-ENG]
Hello my dear community of @Motherhood, a pleasure to be here again to share our experiences as parents where I wish you to be super well as always next to your loved ones. Today I want to share with you something that as parents we must cultivate on a large scale such as patience. And yes, as human beings, many of us do not come with this gift so necessary to lead a peaceful life and most importantly to be realistic when relating to our loved ones, as in the case of our children.
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Something that I have learned in these wonderful years that I have been a parent, is that each child is different and no matter how much we look for help, in books that talk about the subject, we will surely have something new to tell, to write a new one. And I say this because patience is key for us to get along well with them, but being honest is something that for many is not given to us immediately, due to many factors involved in our upbringing, because we have to be clear that children are a sponge absorbing everything, but we would like them to take only the good, but unfortunately it is not so tends to take the bad is most cases and here I do not want to generalize.
And as a father, I want my children to take the good things that I can express to them through our daily talks, where naturally as a father concerned about their welfare, I must open my ears to know what they like or worry about and thus help them to see things from a better point of view, of course, with this I must be very careful because I never want my children to see me as someone who says have this or that, because this would make them not talk to me and this would make me fail as a father in some way.
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As I said at the beginning, patience is not something not innate in me, but I must always keep it in mind in my life and more in dealing with my children, since they will not act in most cases as we have discussed, and this as a parent I could become irritated, but I have in mind that if I do not keep calm it will have a negative effect on my children, and this has happened to me when on certain occasions talking with Alexander or Marialex, they express situations they have experienced in which they have not acted as "I" expected.
And he emphasized the I, because it is the main cause of us losing patience with them by doing things that we do not like, but in reality are not so serious to upset us, on the contrary, showing them patience has made me see what has happened to them and why they acted that way to help them improve future situations, and being honest it is not easy for a parent to keep calm, that is why we must take a deep breath and give ourselves a few minutes to act wisely.
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For a parent it could be easy to lose patience when we see that our children are not as tidy as we want them to be, procrastinating to name a few, but keeping patience in these things has helped me to give them a good example as well as to understand that each one of our children is different and it will take time to assimilate things to become mature when making decisions in their lives. For that reason something that has helped me improve as a parent is to show patience to my children, and at times a lot of it, but in doing so I know that it will help my relationship with them to be better every day.
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Hola amigo... la paciencia!!! y cuando dices que a muchos no le es nato yo soy una jaja, yo trato mi hijo hace que trabaje bastante la paciencia jaja, pero bueno ahí voy aprendiendo a controlarme respiro y continuo .. gracias por este valioso recordatorio..
jeje oye amiga, reaalmente es una cualidad que debemos trabajar mucho, lo importante es darnos cuenta que es algo que debemos mejorar, para asi hacer los cambios. Saludos.
Admiro tu honestidad, yo soy igual, me cuesta tener paciencia pero sé que debo esforzarme y ejercitarme en ella, para poder darle un buen ejemplo a Sofía 😊 Saludos.
Que bueno que pienses así es un signo que deseamos ser mejores padres! Gracias por tus palabras 😊
La paciencia es tan escasa pero tan necesaria. Me gusta lo que comentas que hay que indagar porque los niños hicieron las cosas y no precipitarse a corregir. Creo que es una buena manera de abordar los problemas. Exito
¡Así es amigo! Debemos esforzarnos al máximo por cultivarla. Gracias y saludos.
Hola @loboblanco, agradecido de ante mano por compartir este importante tema en la comunidad, no sabes cuanto me hacia falta leer sobre este tema, justo hoy publique un tema sobre mi falta de paciencia con mis hijos y que me tienen en un nivel de estrés nada normal. Y tienes toda la razón cada uno de nuestros hijos son únicos y con personalidades diferentes y eso es lo que principalmente me a afectado a mi.
Saludos y nuevamente gracias
¡Hola! Agradecido a ti por leerlo y es que en verdad el día a día puede causarnos tanto estrés que pueda que cosas pequeñas nos roben la paciencia. Y si cuando tenemos más de un hijo es fundamental mostrar mucha paciencia, porque por lo general uno es más aplicado que otro y es algo que a la final amamos. Saludos.
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Te entiendo. Yo tampoco tengo mucha paciencia. Y mi hijo.mayor es super fans de los Animes y a mi no me gustan. Al principio me irritaba mucho hasta que un día me senté con el a ver Dragón Ball y la entendí un poco y desde entonces lo invito yo a ver la tele en el horario de esas comiquitas
Paciencia, lucho cada día porque se mantenga a mi lado esa virtud o cualidad que aveces pienso no tengo o por el contrario tengo tanta. La verdad ni yo misma lo entiendo.
Lo que si es verdad, que tienes mucha razón en la que dices, debemos respirar profundo ante las situaciones que nos molestan de nuestros tesoros y orientarlos con sabiduría y a través del ejemplo, para que ellos tengan esa confianza en nosotros.
Gracias por compartir tu experiencia.
Esto es algo que experimento a diario con mi chamo, cabe destacar que la paciencia no es una de mis virtudes tampoco, pero he aprendido a trabajarla. Y si, me preocupa que la ausencia de ella en mis reacciones en algunos momentos, haga mella en mi hijo de a penas 16 meses, por eso, de igual manera, voy practicando respirar y relajarme mas ante los inventos y lociras de un bebé de 16 meses que ha empezado caminar y quiere traer La casa abajo para explorar este mundo tan interesante. Busco el lado divertido de sus ocurrencias, eso ayuda, de momento, en unos años ya veré!
Saludos!