What kind of man am I looking for... week 183
I am a woman who is looking for a man who is emotionally mature, independent, who understands that he is responsible for his own happiness, because if you are not happy with yourself you would be at a disadvantage in life, because no one can be entirely responsible for your happiness and least of all me, I understand that when a person comes to you, they come with their past, present and future, sometimes with wounds and sometimes with scars from those wounds from what you have lived through so for me the most important thing is to accept you, I don't pretend to change you or that you are the same as me, we can be very opposite to each other and attract each other, of course we must have some similar principles that are not negotiable but maybe we don't share the same interests or hobbies but believe me even though I don't like to do some activities that please you I will be there to support your achievements and when things don't go well I will be a good cheerleader in any area, I am not looking for a perfect man because that is illusory, and I know if he is perfect for sure is that he is not from this planet and that is scary, and if you are looking for the perfect woman I think you are wasting your time reading this.
I have several hobbies like working clay, making crafts or sewing, I like concerts, pop music, I like dogs and cats, but between the two I prefer cats because they are independent, quiet most of the time and respect my space. As not everything is rosy I can tell you that I suck at swimming or driving a car and I like silence a lot and sometimes I like to be alone, this is a bit annoying for some of the people around me.
I believe in loyalty, it is the main thing for me and I don't negotiate it as I don't like lies, I believe that trust should be the fundamental basis of a relationship and you can be in Pekin and I in Patagonia and we can still be loyal, I am loyal to my principles and my family is the most precious thing I have and I hope your family will be for you, and I am looking for someone who is responsible with their parents, it is another thing that I do not negotiate, your parents should be important to you, you should take care of them and respect them because I do not tolerate children who treat their parents badly even if they have not been the best example for you, and I ask for respect for mine. I love being around my nieces and nephews or sharing with children.
If you think you can deal with these characteristics we can communicate and if destiny is... so be it.
End of my profile,
More or less like this would be my online dating profile this weekend, although on second thought I would remove some things as I think a dating profile would only have fifty words or so, but for the purpose of this post I think the number of words is adequate here.
Well I hope you enjoyed the read, see you in another weekend engagement, see you then.
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A man responsible for his own happiness... God, sister, how true those simple words actually are. A woman like you should be my friend. Respect for such solid words.
Thank you for your words, you would be a good friend, I already followed you. Greetings and blessings
Well, we're here to support each other, right? And, you, my sweet friend are talented.