Love is a good thing I am a witness. I decide to tag this the story of my love.
Hello havians.
Happy weekend it been awhile I posted here I was busy running around for my marriage. It was a success today I want to share in here the story of how my love began.
When you married your friend you will enjoy
Marry your friend because the devil you know is better than the devil you don't know to be precise ten years ago I found this man but the fear of being deceived was full in me secondly I didn't want to get pregnant and be abandoned in the village so I was so careful around him but little did I not know that the guy was real and was ready to wait for me and also be patience with me. He is a good man very intelligent and a good listener. Upon all my excuses he was ready to wait for Me he is my bestie.
What started like play many years ago has finally come to reality. This journey begins many years ago as a Sunday school student we both where growing together though he was in the senior class in Sunday school I was in the junior class. Funny enough his mother was my Sunday school teacher while his brother was our children choir teacher so you can see the bound. it was already ordain but we didn't know.
So as a teenager I only goes to their compound to see my uncle that his brother that happens to be my Sunday school choir teacher and also see the mother that was my teacher too to him I will only say hi and go my way. It goes on like that till I finally graduated from the teenage class to the adult class where both of us keep seeing each other all the time. The was this friend of his that use to eye me so he my husband now will be escorting that his friend to my house to come and ask me out meanwhile in his heart he too he was admiring me but he didn't say it out.
When I started my secondary school, it happened that I was in the same secondary school with him and he was my senior so each time his fellow senior student come to punish us junior student he my husband now will always come around to recused me. So the closeness started but me I was seeing him as my senior so as a young girl you have to respect your senior that was what I do respect all the way.
After my secondary school I traveled out out of the state to another state for a greener pasture over there I was enjoying myself trying to get new friends over there but the afraid of getting pregnant was over me. You know before now our used to lie to us especially upcoming young girls that standing close or being touched by a man will got you pregnant so we were advised wrongly by our mothers not to allowed any man stop us on the road and say anything that concerns love let alone allowing a man to touch you will send you to family way. So by this advice me I was so serious with it I abide with this advice to the point that any man that stop on the road is a wicked person and I will fight them till the message get to home before I arrived to explain what happen.
This keep happening until one day I meet this handsome guy that was the day I felt I was in love the moment I saw everything in me changed I knew I was in love so I pull myself together pretended as nothing happened the guy in the other way too was admiring me but he couldn't say it out because of afraid of me turning his request down so when I came back I told one of my aunty that was with us then. She quickly rebuked me of saying such a thing that I want to bring embarrassment to their family if I don't know That the guy will put me in family way and ran away and leave me to suffer. She give many instances why I shouldn't believe or love any guy the instances will look so real and got me emotional especially for the victims.
This will increase my hatred for men throughout my staying outside my state I never had a boyfriend I keep sending men away till I return back to my state. When I came back I decided to worship in one of the church I love so much anytime I hear their jingle on radio so on getting there
Guest who I saw? Hahaha is Daniel again someone I never thought of seeing again. He came to me asking me why I travel out without letting him know. I was like tell you as my what? that I didn't think I owe anyone explanation neither apology.
He waited till after service he came back to me and asked me that he want to see me for something very important so I decided to give him my audience so he took me to out to drinking parlor all he could said was I missed you where did you go to I was shocked and I told that I want to go home because the mood he was so I could see love in his eye.
Through out that I couldn't sleep I was restless restless the next day before I could wake up from bed because I didn't know how I managed to sleep, he was the one that wake me up the next morning. He couldn't hold it again he hug me and the hug so deep and touching I was in love immediately I discovered that we were in the room alone I try to separate myself from his arm but I couldn't the more I try, the deeper the love he finally kiss me.
And I responded that was how the whole thing started and today here we are in love as husband and wife. He taught me how to love he is everything I wanted in my man
He is a reflection of me, he worn my heart he is caring, loving, calm, gentle and above all he respects me and I so much love him in return he is my life, my friend, brother sister, mother, father everything to me.
Traditionally done and dusted.
The husband.
Today what started years back as a friendship, boyfriend has come to reality we are legally, certified and fully married and recognize as husband and wife am so grateful that this day has come to be look at me am no more miss Blessing Elijah Noah I am now Mrs Blessing Daniel Tom
I am the most happiest girl because I marry my best friend, my dream as come through.
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