To Be Loved

This is a message to everyone, please do it right the first time and I want you to understand how you can get pushed to the edge and when you think about it, as people we try to get away with everything we can get away with without trying to change our lives.

You did the first time, no one said anything about it. Then you did it again the second and third you still haven't been told the right thing you did and within you are satisfied, you still believe he or she whom you date is happy.. Then you try the same thing for the fifth and the sixth time, that's when it creates something deep that you might not get away with..So if you noticed these things, does love still exists as you think? " What will be you honest opinion or advice to anyone under this spell? "

Inconsistency

You owe no loyalty to abusive people. I’m telling you right now that's the time you got to get out and that's where a lot of questions get asked due to a turn of domestic violence in the country's of the world... You get beat by your partners, your lovers or your spouses and its a bad deal and these set of people always get a sweet talk from the people they relate with but to me please quit is the word..

Get somewhere safe, maybe your friends place, your parents apartment, exit and do not wait next year but now in december plan it and do it right away.. To be loved doesn't invalidate your right to live, you accept too many injustice.. Its far too difficult to do, but when its consistent please remember that I love you and I want what's best for you, so find that place of support and go..

You’ve seen too many post here to give you the support and strength you need to pull out of all of that, don’t just read through every article but get the true meaning.. It could just be a solid message alerting you to make some changes. This happens both ways, don't be surprised really.. my neighbor suffers at the hands of his wife, I really feel bad every single time and he hasn’t seen a clear picture and an alert yet. I’m going to try to talk to him coz he looks younger, and also relatable too don’t want to cause any problems 😅..

Exploding Just Everything

There have to be repeated discussion, how do you set this straight?”.. Have a proper communication, you should connect..

How can you be with your partner or any other person that means a lot to you and you can't make a proper discussion of you and your needs and even your individual truth then that's crazy... Do you really understand what love is, you can try to fix it but when someone pounces on you with words then that's hard...

Have a honest discussion, this is your life too... You've been neglected so many times, you start a goal and your man or lady just leaves you hanging..how can love reign in that place.. This is a union and in your head you feel its heading somewhere..

This happened recently at my friends house.. Young people who literally don’t understand what being in a relationship entails, had a serious argument and if we weren’t present at that scene something bad would have happened..

This is where I’m going to stop for now, there are many more affiliation to this but I think you get the clear picture… Begging to be loved everyday of the 365 days in 2021, really!! that’s a lot to put up with.. Tell your story, there are people who still care for you all the time and if you aren’t happy they are not as well..

Thank you for reading… if you’ve gotten this far right here, trust me you already get the message. Take good care of yourselves..

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