Ladies Of Hive Community Contest #95
Hello everyone.
Welcome to my entry post to ladies of hive community contest 95.
Special thanks to @ifarmgirl for this week's questions.
I will love to invite @brujita18 and @orah14 to join ladies of hive community contest round 95
My write up will be on both questions. I will start with the first question.
1️⃣ We all have a different boiling point, some of us are easily angered, others are really cool tempered. Kindly share one thing that makes you angry, how long do you stay mad, and what or who can pacify you.
I don't really know if I am easily angered or cool tampered, well I will say my mood depends on the severity of the case.
With this said, I will like to share what angered me recently.
I wrote this on my WhatsApp status :
"The fact that the side chick is the home wrecker and not the husband wreaking his own family still baffles my mind. #copied"
A "Side chick" is a lady who is in a relationship with a married man, some of this ladies are aware that the man is married while some are not.
So, after writing this I got a message from my male friend saying.
"hmmm,side chick have dropped quote".
I was sure he was not referring to me, but it clearly showed that he mocked what I wrote.
I took out my time to explain what I meant by sending this text to him.
The blame should be done in both sides not focusing on one end.
Nobody forced the man, he agreed to it too. He has full control of his life, especially sticking to the woman he loves whom he married, probably with beautiful kids too.
He replied my chat with an annoying sticker.
This made me lose my cool, I was very angry at the moment.
But I never replied him again, and I will not.
Except :
- He realizes that I am angry, and apologize for his behavior or
- If he finds out that I am angry ask me the reason, when I tell him he apologize without trying to prove anything. I will be cool with him, but my respect for him will reduce.
- If something happens and I be the one to tell him that I am not happy with him, if he argues before waving it out without apologizing. That's the end, even if we communicate again it will end with few words.
This example is an illustration of how my anger start and ends.
I can lose my cool from just little things, and will be totally fine when one realize and sincerely apologize for his/her actions.
For the second question which is ;
2️⃣ What is your favorite snack or snacks? Share photos of them if you can.
I had a lot of delicious snacks in the past.
But I have come to learn how to eat healthy snacks, which are very much mouth watering.
The second reason I am in love with my new snack is because of it's filling effect. I feel full after eating it.
Permit me to introduce my favorite healthy snack which is "Cucumber and fried groundnut".
I love taking this snack before meal or few hours after meal.
Because of the love I have for this snack, I learnt how to grow them.
And of course I know how to fry my groundnut to my taste.
A lot of people eat their groundnut without peeling it, I prefer peeled groundnut especially if I buy the fried groundnut.
Photo taken by me
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Hello! first of all thank you for the invitation. The case you bring up where there is a third person in a relationship and they almost always blame him for the separation of the first couple, is unfair. I agree with you, it's not fair because to be intimate you need two...decision of two, not only the one who came to an already established relationship. I loved reading you Greetings!
Yes, it always annoys me when they always blame one person.
So, true is two that makes a relationship why push it to one when there is damage?
Thank you very much for reading.
I understand your anger aspect. Whoever annoys me, I forgive easily and calm down so quickly with a polite apology.
Cucumber and groundnut are cool combo snacks👍
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Yes, polite apology works.
Thank you very much dear for stopping by.
Come join me enjoy my combo.
The fact that wives would leave their husbands to go fight with a small girl over a grown man is another baffling fact. A fully grown man would remember he has a wife and kids but would chase girls he can give birth to 🤦🏿.
Your friend didn't try at all, if I was in that position I'll get angry too.
Nice snack combination by the way 😉 and thanks for inviting me ☺️
Seriously,I don't know why they always blame the side chick leaving the man.
My dear I was so angry.
Thank you very much dear for stopping by.
Waiting for your entry.
You're always welcome 🤗
Cucumber and fried peanuts! I've never eaten it, but it sounds really interesting.
It is so delicious.
Thank you.
I can see why you lost your cool on that response from your male friend :) I hope he comes back to you and apologise hehe.
Your snack is quite interesting, cucumber and nuts. They are healthy options!
Thank you lots for your participation !LADY
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I hope so too.
Thank you for visiting my post.
I have long patience.. But then again, it depends on the situation.. I seldom get mad, but if it happens, you'll really notice it..I won't gonna a thing or mind people around.. . I'm just like a mute until I cool down 🤣
Yes,it depends on the situation.
I understand 😂😂
Thanks for stopping by.