LOH #95 || What makes a wife angry?

August 16, 2022

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I believe that everyone gets angry but not everyone is being angry easily because some can control it or they are really a cool tempered person.

Angry is a strong feeling of being upset or annoyed and it is an emotion that causes anger.

I am one of those person who easily get angry over simple things. For example, I get angry when my son didn't go home in just one call. I get angry when he forgot to throw his biscuit wrapper in the garbage can. I get angry when he don't keep his toys after playing or he won't brush his teeth before sleeping. That are just some among many simple things that makes a mother angry.

By the way, before I go on I would like to thank @ladiesofhive for this another challenge to write on. It is another topic to share our thoughts and learn from others too. Actually there is two topic to choose from but I choose this one:

We all have a different boiling point, some of us are easily angered, others are really cool tempered. Kindly share one thing that makes you angry, how long do you stay mad, and what or who can pacify you.

Thank you so much @thekittygirl for this great question.

As a wife, I have one thing that usually makes my blood boil towards my husband. It is usually happened before we leave the house going anywhere.

This is the moment when he keep pushing the horn and seems his telling, come on, let's go. It is like, come over, faster. It seems he is shouting, you're like a turtle that moves so slow. Hearing a continuous sounds of horn really makes me angry because he is in the tricycle, keep on pushing the horn while me is still busy inside the house.

I will always be the last person to go out in the house when going anywhere because I always check all outlets, turn off all switch, make sure to close the windows and lock the doors. Not to mention, the mother will prepare the kids from taking them bath, dress them before a mother can take care of herself.

When I went outside, he will then said, oh, we forgot the water bottle, we don't have face mask or get some jacket for your son because might be the weather will be cold tonight and other small things to bring. So, I need to go back, open the house and get the other needed things. I get angry because he just sit there, waiting for me while I am still busy for myself and making sure that everything in the house is safe. If he just help me prepare everything we might save some time.

This happens most of the time and it makes me nag while riding in the tricycle or sometimes I will just keep my mouth shut.

I don't know if the @ladiesofhive or the mothers in the @motherhood could relate on this. Might be we women will say, when our husband is still courting us, they will always wait for us, but now they will just keep pushing the horn or shouting that we will move faster, lol. That's the reality of life.

Though I am a person who gets easily angry but I also get over easily. If I won't open my mouth to talk, it means I am upset but when my husband talked to me and I can answer him, the bad feelings just go away and everything will be okay.

If the anger is caused by someone in the family, usually the person who makes you feel it that way will be the same person who can pacify you.

If I am angry towards my husband, his effort in serving me food, kissing good bye or good night and by simply talking to me even he knows I'm angry is enough to pacify me.

A hug, a kiss, a simple talk, a simple gestures of love and concern, a sorry is enough to calm an angry person.

A child's hug is so powerful to pacify our anger and even calms us when we are crying. It's a power hug from them that makes us okay.


This is my participation for The ladies of hive community contest #95.

I would like to invite @jangle, @bloghound, @jane1289 and @teacherlynlyn to join this contest. For sure you have something to share about this topic.

Thank you so much for dropping by.

Picture at the top is mine. It's me trying to portray my face if I am angry. Oh no! we really look so ugly when angry lol. So, don't be angry always because you will look ugly and it makes you old easily.



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I love the question. And as of this moment I am annoyed to my husband 🤣

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That's a good idea for content sis @yen1503. Heheheh might be he is giving you something to write today hehehe.

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Actually, this week's questions are from @ifarmgirl, but hey...
I can certainly relate! Women are the responsible ones, making sure the house is secure while the husbands annoy us with thoughtless horns & yelling! Been there, done that! 😒
Thank you for your entry to our weekly contest! 😊

!LADY

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@ifarmgirl so nagagalit ka pla? Hehe.. Akala ko hindi hehe

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Hahaha, I do sis and I deal with it a lot better now than before :) Ikaw, nagagalit ka din ba? LOL!

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Oh no! I was wrong, might be I just remembered the girl in the end hehehe. So, sorry @thekittygirl and @ifarmgirl...

Yes, men or husband should be the one to make the house secure before leaving and even before sleeping at night but this time we are doing it in the opposite. Women or wives are the one who always worried about it and then they will yell or keep pushing the horns and it really annoying.

Thanks for dropping by.

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Easy to do... I did last week's questions, ifarmgirl did this week's questions, and yeah we both have '...girl' in our names! 😁

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No worries Jen :)

I think you just have to talk about it with your husband and hope he will understand your point. He seems to have less patience, hehe

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Thanks sis. I always talked to him about it but in nagging way hahaha. I am talking to him when I am angry. Last night he prepared the water bottle before we leave pero may kasama pang linya "prepare natin to nak baka magalit na naman si mama" hahaha.. buti naman. Nagtagalog ako kasi baka tagalog ka kasi nagtagalog ka kanina sa reply ni jane hehehe.

You got it right, ang baba din ng pasensya ng asawa ko hehehe. Madali din magalit hehehe.

Thanks for dropping by.

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That's funny, lol! At least, help ka na nya sa ibang bagay :) Sometimes we need to extend our patience when they don't para iwas away, lol!

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Ou nga sis, minsan keep quiet na lang para di na lumaki pa peru kapag di makapagpigil lalabas talaga ang pagiging nagger ng babae lol

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Hahaha, chillax na lang para masaya :)

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Thanks for the invite sis.. Natawa ako sa first photo mo hehe.. Ako naman ay hndi wife...pero madali magalit 🤣🤣...cge sulat ako about dto haha

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Welcome sis @jane1289. Hahaha kahit ako nga eh natawa doon sa picture ko, mas pumapangit pala kapag galit hahaha.. siguro dapat di na ako magalit hahaha nakakatanda din kasi hahaha.

Selfie na lang sis kaysa maghanap pa ng ibang pic hehehe

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Lol! I can't get over with that angry face you made on your lead image Jen! And if your husband does that often, never mind him na, haha. I mean just do your thing and let him wait. Maybe next time you have to tell him not to blow the horns because it irritate you and make you forget things which in turn make him wait longer haha.

But it's good that you're easily pacified :)

!LADY

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Lol! me too laugh to myself upon seeing it. That was the first time I took selfie with an angry face, ang pangit pala. Iwasan ko na siguro magalit kasi mas nakakapangit hahaha

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Wow, this is a beautiful write up, yeah that is true not everyone has the calmness and tenderness attitude when angry ....

Lolz, every parent gets angry as not disposing refuse well and when they call their kids to come home on time , it's quite reasonable...

Thank you for sharing this

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Thank you for dropping by @quduus1. Yes it's reasonable because most of the time kids are so naughty.

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Ahahahahaah feeling ko ate kapag nag asawa ako eh magiging ganito din ako tulad mo haha

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Hahahha paghandaan mo na sis. Pero syempre di rin naman galit palagi, mas madami din namang moments na masaya hehehe na kapag yun naman ang isipin mo makaka smile ka naman kahit ikaw lang mag isa hehehe

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Depende tlga yan sa mga hormones natin sis.

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Ehhh, pareho tayong mainitin ang ulo haha. Lalo ako minsan, maisturbo anlg sa ginagawa kp gigil na gigi l a talaga ako. Para bagang gusto kong mang bigwas, lol.

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Hehehehe minsan nga nakakainis din na may ganito tayong ugali ano kasi nakakadagdag stress din hehehe

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You look really fine when angry😂😂
I couldn't stop laugh when i saw your picture
Nice one dear friend

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Hahaha. Nakakaboil talaga ng dugo maamsh pag minamadali ang mga nanay of even mga girls.

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Ou nga naman sis @murakaamiiii.. tapos okay lang sana if tinutulungan ka sa paghahanda ng mga kailanganin bitbitin...

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