Adolescentes : Señales y Advertencias [ESP-ENG]
Es muy común escuchar que los padres consideren algunos comportamientos como una simple consecuencia de la etapa de adolescencia, sin embargo no es asi,existen señales de alerta que deben ser interpretadas y atacadas a tiempo, tales como:
Bajo rendimiento en el colegio y total desinteres por los estudios.
Mal humor constante.
Limitada comunicación con los padres.
Rechazo a compartir o sociabilizar con la familia.
Adolescence is a very difficult stage in our lives in all aspects, particularly on a psychological level, which requires that parents be aware of all the signs or possible warnings that may arise.
It is very common to hear that parents consider some behaviors as a simple consequence of the adolescence stage, however it is not like that, there are warning signs that must be interpreted and attacked in time, such as:
Low performance in school and total disinterest in studies.
Constant bad mood.
Limited communication with parents.
Refusal to share or socialize with the family.
Nuestros hijos atraviesan esta etapa como si caminaran por un campo minado, donde sus mentes se encuentran en una encrucijada que ni ellos mismo pueden entender, es por ello prioritario mantener una conversación continua con ello, tratando siempre de lograr la armonia y que no se sientan cuestionados ni juzgados, pero estableciedo siempre limites y responsabilidades.
It is important to pay close attention to the use of social networks and groups formed in them, there is a latent danger of malicious people, who have very particular skills that allow them to persuade adolescents to perform actions or activities harmful to them for their own benefit.
Our children go through this stage as if they were walking through a minefield, where their minds are at a crossroads that not even they themselves can understand, it is therefore a priority to maintain a continuous conversation with it, always trying to achieve harmony and not feel questioned or judged, but always established limits and responsibilities.
Lo mas importante es que el amor por nuestros hijos nos fortalece y nos dan la herramientas necesarias para apoyarlos y orientarlo de por vida.
Por último, les sugiero que siempre se den el tiempo necesario para conversar y observar las conductas de nuestros hijos adolescentes, a traves de ello podemos alertar a tiempo una situación y atacarla oportunamente.
The most important thing is that love for our children strengthens us and gives us the necessary tools to support and guide them for life.
Finally, I suggest that you always take the time to talk and observe the behaviors of our adolescent children, through this we can alert a situation in time and attack it in a timely manner.