To me, life is about becoming the better version of myself every day. I try to leave some of my anger, some of the regrets behind, I forgive and try to proceed forward. But the feeling of fulfillment sometimes seems missing inside.

So this question always poke my mind, what makes us a better person? What is the better version of someone?

The answer to the second question is easier. Like what we are, if we do a little better the next day, be kind, faithful, forgiving the next day; we can be a little better the next day for sure.

But what makes us better?

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Being better to others as well as towards us.

This is what makes sense to me if you ask me that question.

There's no limit to being better. As there's a saying, in this world you can choose to be anyone so be kind.

Just like that. There are many options to be better as a person.

Remember, when was the last time you did something that made you feel guilty inside, made you unhappy, gave you a feeling like you could do better.

I can give an example.

A few days ago when I was paying my bill at a restaurant I put a certain amount of tip. That was the amount I usually tip. But this time the waiter was a teen boy, very generous. I would have given him more. But I was also thinking like, why so? Coz that will exit my tip limit. I was like paying math in my mind. Like it's not possible for me to give more every single time. So what should I do? After the mind argument with myself, I end up giving the same tip not more.

It made me feel bad afterward.

This is nothing much. Maybe I did what I was supposed to. But my mind didn't stop questioning my act. I'm in a guilty feeling.

I promised myself to not do this mind argument again rather choose more ethically. I believe I can do better, I can be a better person by giving more.

Also, the same applies to us. Being kind to ourselves, making ourselves a priority can make us a better person every single day.

I found my answer this way.

Did you find your answer?

Thanks for reading my post.