HEARTBREAK, A HARD STAGE OF LIFE

And who has not gone through a heartbreak, it is definitely something that no one likes and no one would like to go through, especially when you have a beautiful relationship, but yes, in many opportunities you live it, in different ways, for different reasons, but it still hits the soul.

I think that in order to overcome any situation you definitely have to live it, I am one of those people who do not give their opinion in case someone asks me for an opinion about a situation that I have not gone through, for example, I can not give an opinion about divorce, nor give advice about it since I have not been divorced.

There are many stages through which you must go through to overcome a breakup, in my opinion:

• Mourning stage.
• Stage of acceptance.
• Stage of overcoming.

Stage of mourning: Where you think you can't go on anymore, that your life can't go on without that person, you don't want to eat or on the contrary you eat only sweets, all music reminds you of that person, and you go down the street crying because you had to sit alone on the little bench in the square where they used to sit, You see their friends and you remember that person, you see their family and it is worse, it is at that moment where the different religious beliefs come to light and you ask someone (in which your faith is based) to make you forget that person, of course, all this is multiplied if your heartbreak comes because of a deception by your partner.

Acceptance stage: once the first stage is over, in some people it lasts longer, in others it lasts less, you start thinking and ask yourself "Why so much suffering on your part if that person did not love you? ", in this stage you accept the cause of the lack of love, if it is because of deceit you say: "I hope they do to him what he did to me" hahahahahahaha, if it is because they cannot be together because of greater forces you say, "I hope it goes well, that he finds someone who values him", if it is because of death, you say: "May God grant him his eternal rest", you must when you cry, or maybe the song he dedicated to you when you hear it you change the station, but you are moving forward, in yes you already start to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

Stage of overcoming: (Here comes the good part), you laugh about everything you did in your mourning stage, you don't know how you ended up serenading that person, or in a karaoke singing Ana Gabriel's song titled "El Cigarrillo", you start to enjoy the compliments and good comments that a person makes to you, you go on a diet and you look overweight and to reaffirm everything in a gym, definitely, at this stage you feel that you are going to devour the world, so much so that you can choose if you plan to stay alone for a while or if you are ready for another relationship.

The good thing about these 3 stages is not only to live them, but to LEARN FROM THEM, for example, if our heartbreak is because we fell in love with a married person, our learning should be not to repeat it, since we are prone to go through it again.

The truth of all this is that after having overcome everything, you are left with the experience of saying that THERE IS NOTHING GOODER THAN TO GET A GOOD DESPITE.