Love and age difference.

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Sometimes we come across the ones we love but sometimes age makes a barrier between us but sometimes I guess it is where we find ourselves or let me say it is the position where we find ourselves and the mentality of the people around us. Now come to think of it for example we see the way other countries behave in such a way that they count age as just a mere number and you will see that in the outside world, they are not bothered about this because you can't know who is who from them.

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I will give a scenario now which I would love you all to learn and give your suggestions to.. I once had a friend which was in love with a lady some times again, they started well tho and the guy has asked her out on a day for several times but she later agreed to date him and then they later got to know themselves better and along the line, they both discovered that there is a age barrier between them.

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The guy was a way too younger than the lady. The lady is 27 years of age while the guy is 25 years of age.. The dispensation
We find ourselves in has made this a really big issue for us because most ladies believe they want to date a guy way older than them because they believe that the age difference will make the guy expose more than them and be able to show them some steps which they do not know about and some things which they do not know about..

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Sometimes this gives most guys some old feelings because they are scared of getting in love with those ladies older than them but to me,I don't see it as a barrier tho if there is understanding between them.. I know of a Friend which got married to a lady which is the same age as him and also a friend got married to a lady that is solder than him and things have been going on well between them till date..

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About that friend of mine I was talking about earlier, the lady got to know his age and said things can't go well between them again just because he was older than the guy.. That very day, my friend called me and narrated the story to me in a deep pain and I was just forced to persuade him to leg it go and he should go over and get the one who love him. Now happy because he is doing fine with is own lady that loves him also and they are doing fine...

Does age really matter in a love relationship?? I want to hear your view about this....

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Thanks

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You're welcome @heskay, you deserve it well! Thanks for being so active here 😊👍

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You are welcome.. I am happy to hear that..

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As you state in your own knowledge, there are couples who are older than him and have been successful. More important than age is love and respect, common goals and good frank communication.

Greetings @heskay 🙏

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Well I agree with you though.. but do you think it works in every aspect?

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In our opinion, every marriage will have to overcome challenges. For example, if the woman is older than the man, or if one studied at university and the other did not, if one grew up in the city and the other in the countryside, if one is proactive and the other is not... and so on and so forth. What will keep them together despite the differences they may have in particular? True love, deep respect, a sense of commitment, and the other qualities that we know must be present. There is no doubt that choosing a partner and establishing a family is a serious decision, which should be "till death do you part". Greetings @heskay

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Yeah, thanks for your contribution. I am really happy for your suggestion.. you have said it all and those are the important things. Thanks for your comment

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love does not know about differences between ages, because it is created to live eternally. Good topic bro. Greetings to you @heskay

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Thanks for reading this I am super impressed with your comment

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