Overcoming my fears

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I will be answering the edition 1 of the week 15 prompt tagged "YOUR GREATEST FEAR".
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We are humans and sometimes we dread.
Fear is not terrible but letting the fear overtake your thoughts that's where the trouble lies. The mind is like an express route which good and bad ideas travel through but what we let gain hold of us truly counts a lot.

FEAR OF MARRYING THE WRONG PERSON

This is one of my biggest worries since marriage is a permanent thing. The minute you enter, it is hard to get out.
Hearing how marriages fail these days and witnessing your parents have misunderstanding is enough dread.
I don't want to have a failing marriage or place my children in a circumstance of a broken marriage.
I pray to God daily and alter my thinking that no matter how marriages collapse, my marriage would not fail.
I will have a happy family.

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FEAR OF FAILURE

Another huge anxiety I have is the fear of failure.
When I say fail, I mean not being financially sufficient to support myself, my family, and my future family.
When I get married, I don't simply want to be a wife but able to support my spouse.
There's nothing wonderful like being an independent woman and not constantly coming to my parents for aid.

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CONCLUSION

Overcoming these phobias may not be as straightforward as indicated. But I beg God daily not to let me marry the wrong guy.
Being impoverished is a major fear too, and conquering it simply takes my dedication, hard effort, and perseverance.
It takes a strong lady to be able to face failure or hardship. It may not be simple tho, but am begging God to help me fulfill my aspirations and make me successful in all aspects of my life.



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One of the worst mistakes in life is having the wrong spouse for a life partner, it's dreadful. Only God can direct us on that. And yes, I also fear failure but we just need to overcome it by accepting that failure isn't the end of life but a push to make us work harder. Thanks for sharing dear😊.

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Yes oo
Marriage becomes a nightmare if you marry the wrong person
God help us

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Fear is just one of nature's ways of testing us, how we react to them determines the kind of people we are. These fears are just so relatable, but by being intentional with what you want out of life, you will get what you truly wish for.
Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Yes you are right
Fear must surely come
Thank you for reading

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