[LOH#84] Being the 5th out 6

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Hello wonderful women
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It's another weekly prompt of the @ladiesofhive community. I'm so glad to participate in this one. It been a while i did, i have been so busy, but will try as much as i can to have my entry every week.

What was your position (in terms of birth) in the family?

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I'm the 5th child out of 6 children of my parents. We are 5 girls and 1 boy. I am the last girl.

How did that experience help you become, or hinder you from becoming, a successful adult?

Being the last girl doesn't mean i didn't have responsiblies, yeah i did! I'm still older than one person which is my older with about 4years, so i watch as they took care of him.

From my older sisters i till learnt alot. Most times when i was still in secondary school, they would help me with my assignment, advise and i would even wear their clothes since we were all girls.
I also learnt to respect my elders and be obedience. Being the last girl, there must always be errands to do at home and i must do them or else be punished. My mum didn't pet me because i was the last girl, even my only bro she doesn't. She treats everyone the same

I still have the responsible of cooking, that was where i learnt my cooking skills from and it has really helped . My elder sisters are married and that's an advantage of being an aunty early.

Sincerely, if i were to choose i will want to be the only child so that all the love, care, attention will all be mine but then i realize that siblings are blessings.

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Thank you for reading
Wishing you a lovely weekend ahead

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I understand the part where you have to respect elders. Your position in the house automatically puts you in that spotlight too.

Thanks for the invite

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Sure, i need to except i want collect wotowoto.. hahahaha
It made me have respect outside family too

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Hello @graciousvic. How nice to be treated the same no matter your position in the family. However, by helping out, you learned how to become an excellent cook. Now that's something to be proud of and necessary in your adult life.

I enjoyed reading your story. I understand your wish to be an only child. There's no one but you. But then you miss out on all the sisterly and brotherly affiliations if all goes well. As you say, siblings are a blessing.

Thanks for sharing. Have a nice weekend.

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Your are right
I didn't see cooking as an excuse or complain but to improve myself

Thanks for reading and sharing ideas
Do have a wonderful weekend too

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