Ladies of Hive contest #121
This topic indeed wows me.
And co incidentally it's valentine's period, the period people fall in and out of love ππ
Now I will love to answer the two.
Number one goes thus;
How do you know when you are in love? What are the signs?
When I am in love with someone I feel like hearing from the person every now and then, I don't feel bored with the person, even if he or she is talking jargons, I will want to hear and laugh at every single joke he or she makes.
When I am in love with someone i want to be so so involve in their lifes, every and anything I will want them to hear it, and they inturn must be extremely involved in my life intentionally. Again I could be very very clingy when I am in loveπππππ
One evidence that I am in love with someone is that i would love to not just spend my time but my money as well.πππ.
Yeah to me loving means giving, so I can't love you and I dont give, either my time or materially. I will always support and encourage them to see them come to lime light.
And number two goes thus;
Does love come on suddenly or grow over time? What are your keys
to ensure your relationship remains strong and healthy?
Ok so I don't fall in love instantly, I allow it grow over time, all the people I have ever fallen in love with starts from friendship before it grows into anything serious.
I love the friendship part because it makes me study or know the person well enough (well although we can't know people enough).
And what I do to ensure that any relationship I enter into last or stay strong and healthy is that i involve in constant communication.
To me aside God, communication is the bedrock of every relationship, whether platonic, marriage, business etc.
Another thing that has helped my relationship with people over time is trying to understand them to the last, to me you can't love me enough if you don't understand me.
The way healthy communication is important that's the same way proper understanding of the individual you are involved with is important.
I am sure with this few points of mine I have been able to convince you that I love love π₯°π₯°π₯°. In essence I love to love and I love to be loved ππ.
And because of the value I place on people I try not allow money, or any material thing come between me and them because I know that we all need each other to survive in this world, yeah no man is an island.
I remain
glotokens
Thanks for engaging my blog.
Congratulations @glotokens! You have completed the following achievement on the Hive blockchain And have been rewarded with New badge(s)
Your next target is to reach 55000 upvotes.
You can view your badges on your board and compare yourself to others in the Ranking
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word
STOP
Check out our last posts:
Support the HiveBuzz project. Vote for our proposal!
When you are in live it is like you are floating with the intense of the feeling you have for that someone no? Hehe.
Well, I like this :) The friendship part of a relationship is vital. It provides an opportunity to really get to know someone before taking things to the next level. :)
Surely, communication is especially important to build a long-lasting relationship. It helps 2 parties understand each other better, express their needs and wants openly, handle conflicts in a healthy way, and ultimately keep the spark alive in the relationship. :)
Thanks for joining us and sharing your thoughts :)
Thanks too for reading it
Much love