Abundance.Tribe's BiWeekly Question - What's The Hardest Truth You Have Learned!

To trust with all your heart is the hardest truth I have learned, when you trust with all your heart, they is seventy five percent believe that you must be hurt, therefore, it is not advisable to trust with all your heart, although I am not implying that someone should not trust another, but while putting your beliefs on them also knows that the person you are one hundred percent hoping on is a human like you.

Meaning they can change at any moment depending on what may be their troubles at the moment, life does not give us what we want, life at times take away what we want and give us what we did not asked for.

Making the way we see things still not great and confusing, if a certain phenomenon could be as we always wanted, we would have had rest of mind and beliefs of great importance all the time.

Trust has done to me more harm than good, in January, earlier this year, someone who happens to be so close to me, asked me for help, by then I was capable and I help him, which he promised to pay back.

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When the pay back time he kept was due he refuses to do as he said, I called him severally, for more than one week but he keeps telling me to wait, I wait and wait and waited but he didn't do as he said.

I was annoyed, as I did not know what to do, it was a far sum of money and each times I remember it, I always got a bad time, as it will disturb me for sometimes.

He refuses to pay back and that was how our friendship came to an end, I loose him and I loose my money, if only I knew, I would have not given the Money to him, and that wouldn't have ended our friendship and my money wouldn't have lost also.

But because I trusted him with all my heart, I was hurt at the end and I loose him as my friend, so seeing how this had shape my life and my social life mean trust happens to be the hardest lesson I have learned and which I still find it difficult at times to trust again, so that I will not end up loosing more friends than I should.

Because, friends are Importance in life, they at times make us happy, they brings you laughter when you are together and as well make your day colorful and keep you going.

Trust is a unique kind of ability, it will make you feel good all the time you have ever wanted, it will bring to you all love life, it will as well hurt you at the extreme, if the person you hope for mistreat you.

At times you will see people lying in their room for more than necessary and refusing to go outside, being happy in grabbing their foam and refused seeing the faces of people, why! Because they may tends to believe that humans are not to be trust.