How do you handle difficult times - stay calm or what?

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Greetings to my esteemed friends on the Cent platform. It's another day and a time to share about difficult times and the decisions you take during this period as well as the resultant effects of brings when everything calms down. It's your friend @faquan saying hello from this part of the world.

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This post will start with these questions, what are your reactions when you're angry? How do you feel when you're accused wrongly and what are your response to such circumstances? What are your reactions when you're found not guilty of the offense that you're accused of?

All these questions arises during difficult times and once they're not answered correctly, things tends to go worst.

To me the best way to react when an angry is to keep quiet or be silent. Silence is also an answer to difficult situations. Keeping quiet and not responding sometimes makes you feel inferior, but at the end of situation, you'll know that you were right. It should be noted that many have gone to their early grave or sent others to their early grave due to their inability to keep quiet in difficult situations.

Another way is to say I'm sorry even when you're 100% right. There's an adage where I come from that says I'm sorry cut long story short. This is very true because, immediately you say I'm sorry, then peace will reign.

I'm a situation where I'm accused wrongly and they later found out that I'm innocent, I'll forgive. Although, it's extremely difficult to forgive at this point because most people will want to press charges and cash out from the situation. Forgiveness in such a situation is easier said than done. But I choose to forgive and move on.

My final point is that difficult times if looked critically come to make people stronger and they don't last forever. Integrity at every point in life matters a lot, because it'll easily prove your innocence.

Thanks!



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