Fear is not so bad

🌞One of the beliefs I grew up with was that being afraid was a bad thing, something that made me weak and vulnerable. But that's what life is all about, transforming those beliefs. That's why today I think that fear is not so bad and is very connected to our intuition. Fear, in a way, protects us. If we didn't feel fear, we would jump into anything without thinking for a second, we would even risk our life. Therefore, I believe that every time we are afraid, life is giving us the opportunity to stop for a moment and decide to do it with fear or not to do it definitely and accept the consequences of this decision.

🌞Certainly, fear is a complex emotion that can manifest itself in different ways. I think the biggest fear we have is of the unknown, of everything that is different and that we cannot foresee. That generates so much anxiety and stress that it limits us only to our comfort zone.

🌞Another fear that is very present in our lives is the fear of loss, that is, losing a loved one, losing a partner, losing a job. I believe that this fear is born from the things we cling to, that is why we must challenge fear, face it and move forward, giving ourselves freedom and letting go of everything we cling to. We must understand that we do not own anything, not even our own life. Only in this way will we be able to live with fear and overcome all the challenges that come our way.

🌞Another very common fear is the fear of being judged or rejected, of feeling different from others. And many times, because of the fear of being rejected, we end up losing our identity and forgetting who we are. We put on masks just to be liked by others, living a life of appearances to be accepted.

🌞I think the biggest fear is the fear of loneliness, of feeling without a support, without a partner, without children, without real friends with whom we can talk, without being judged. For me, to be alone is to connect with myself and my true essence, to be silent and listen to what my soul says to my conscience, because its words are the compasses that lead me to my true destiny.

🌞Fear is like a visitor who arrives unannounced, bringing with him a dark shadow. It is like an echo that envelops us and sometimes paralyzes us, steals our calm and prevents us from smiling. But fear is not only fear, it is the courage within us, it is a flame that burns, it is a sign that there are dreams, goals and objectives that we wish to achieve. Therefore, when we face every fear in our life, we become more and more free.